28/03/2025
Are We Ever “Enough”?
In my work supporting people’s development, I meet so many talented professionals—smart, capable, successful—who quietly carry self-doubt. Imposter syndrome whispers, “Am I good enough?” and even those in great roles, making real impact, question themselves.
It’s not just them. So many of us go through life wondering if we’re okay, if we measure up.
Yesterday, I met a lovely young woman on the train. We got chatting about careers, ambitions, and life choices. She shared lots about her education, working life so far and future plans and asked questions about my career journey, which I matter of factly explained. And then she said something that surprised me—she was in awe of what I had achieved, she thought I should write a book ( I won’t be. Don’t worry friends that you’ll politely have to read it!) I had a moment where I thought is she mad - thinking I’ve done anything remotely special here?
It only takes a chance encounter to hold up a mirror, to remind yourself of the value you bring. That conversation made me pause, reflect, and appreciate the path I’ve walked.
So, if you ever doubt yourself, take a step back. Look at how far you’ve come. And if you get the chance, remind someone else of their worth, too.
I am really hoping she achieves her dreams. And hoping we all take a little more time to recognise our own worth and progress.