Ferris Jay - Pet Healing & Bereavement Support

01/07/2025

I’m stepping away from the computer, phone and internet for a couple of days, to rest and rejuvenate.

I’ll be back seeing clients and answering messages again on Friday.

Until then, I’ll take my nose out of the screens to more depply reconnect with my inner world and the beauty of my natural surroundings.

Whilst I love connecting with everyone online, I hear the call for a break.

Have a wonderful few days and I’ll see you all soon.

26/06/2025

Tonight is the night, for our first live zoom Q & A call for the 'Simple and Effective EFT Tapping for Pets' course students.
If you've questions about how to use EFT Tapping for your pets, come join us.
If you haven't yet signed up for the course, there's still time, just click on the link below to sign up.
I'll be sending a reminder email with the zoom link to all course participants 1 hour before the call.

20/06/2025

Wishing a very happy Solistice to all who celebrate it.

It’s a beautiful time to tap into nature’s powerful rhythms.

Here in the northern hemiphere the sun is at it’s strongest, it’s the longest day, nature’s life force energy is at it’s peak.

May we cleberate nature in all her glory and bask in the brightness and yang energy.

May it give momentum and energy to all the wonders that we are bringing forth into the world through our thoughts, deeds, creations and interactions with each other.

May it light our way for the rest of the year ahead.

May it bring out our true radiance so we can all shine bright and be brighter lights in the world.

With love,

Ferris.

19/06/2025

It's here: my 'EFT Tapping for Pets' course is now live!

I've loved seeing the amazing transformations that EFT Tapping brings to my animal clients.

Pets regaining their appetites, overcoming their fears, healing quickly and finding peace in old age.

I've also loved showing my human clients how to use tapping simply and effectively for their pets.

It's so empowering for them be able to soothe their anxious pet or make them more comfortable, within minutes.

Now, it's time to share that transformation with more people and their beloved animals companions.

So, I've created the 'Simple and Effective EFT Tapping for Pets' online self study course.

My intention is for this to become a 'go to' resource when pet guardians need something extra to calm a distressed pet, enhance healing or bring back peace and joy to the lives of their animal companions.

What will you learn on the course?

We introduce the technique of EFT tapping, start with simple tapping to use in the moment, for quick relief and change. (and a great introduction to tapping).

(And we use the tapping on ourselves for our pets, so even if they don't like touch, or are in another location, the tapping will stil work for them.)

Then, we go deeper, honing our skills to work effectively with different issues (great for tappers to deepen their skills).

And we have monthly Q & A sessions where students can get insight and clarity.

If you're ready to to use EFT Tapping Simply and Effectively for your pets, click the link in the comments and join us.

If you have animal loving friends, who'd love to have a more active role in their pet's healing journeys, using this amazing technique, please share the link with them too.

Let's use the power of tapping to improve our pet's and our own lives today.

16/06/2025

This Facebook memory tugged my heart strings this morning.

It wasn’t only remembering Sally dog’s kindness and the lovely bond that developed between her and Baby.

It was the preciousness of having animal companions 😍

To have their unconditionally loving presence at the centre of my life was such a gift.

They taught me so much about play.

Their presence was so grounding.

It’s been over 5 years since I’ve had an animal companion of my own.

I don’t grieve those who have passed on as they lived full and happy lives.

I do deeply miss the beautiful dynamic of living with animal friends.

They really are furry balls of pure magic and wonder.

They bring out the magic and joy in me so easily.

They are so radiant with happy life force energy.

Even when old, they still have such presence and grace at facing the end of their days.

The time of having animal companions again is coming closer.

Not quite yet, but soon.

I can feel my heart getting ready, calling it in ahead of time.

I can feel it coming.

And patience is required to navigate the unknown of when.

Looking back at memories such as this makes my heart sing in resonance with what will be coming.

It’s also that strange liminal space where the missing, the appreciation and anticipation walk hand in hand.

25/05/2025

This is why I do the work that I do ❤️

For those animal companions like Gigi, that struggle after trauma and just need help releasing the trauma and stress that has accumulated inside.

For those wonderful people like Fran, whose dedication knows no bounds and yet need a new way forward when the old ways don’t work.

And for all the unwell and unhappy animal companions that need some extra help and support.

Plus their loving guardians who are frazzled and distressed when their beloved pets are struggling or nearing end of life.

I love how the simple tools I teach make such a difference to both the pets and their people ✨

I love that I get to share this work and facilitate the amazing transformations that happen, like with Gigi and Fran ❤️

Receiving heart warming messages like this is the icing on the cake 😍

09/04/2025

How to ease your anxiety about your pet's health - including resources.

A big issue I face when working with my human clients is anxiety about their pet’s prognosis, treatment or longevity.

That, often combined with caregiver fatigue, is enough to make your journey through the challenging situation a really hard slog.

I’m here to help make that time a little bit easier and gentler, for you and for them.

The calmer you can be, the easier it is to navigate each step and face each decision with a clear head and get through any bumpy patches without freaking out.

Today, I’m sharing 2 videos to give you a first aid approach to dealing with anxious feelings.

The approaches are what I use for my clients and myself.

I’ve been refining them as I’m navigating house hunting and house bidding.
That process has reminded me how important it is to be able to lead ourselves lovingly through our challenges and clear any anxiety or fear that comes up around the unknowns of the future, that can seem beyond our control.

I’ll post more on how to best lead ourselves through challenges soon.

The first step is usually to tend to our nervous system and to clear fear and anxiety, so they don’t leave us drained and ungrounded.

The approach is the same, whether the anxiety is about an upcoming procedure for your pet, a vet visit, fearing that they are deteriorating or having a relapse - or any other situation they are facing that makes you feel anxious.

And that applies to other situations in your life, or in the world, that cause you to experience feelings of anxiety.

Video 1.

The first video is my quick 4 step ‘first aid’ approach to dealing with anxiety.
Click here to watch the video and try it for yourself. https://youtube.com/shorts/erZaeZrIzGs

Video 2.

The second video is an eft tap along to help you clear anxiety from your system.
Click here to tap along with me https://youtu.be/c9glHE6Lvks

Try them and share your results.

Let me know how you get on with them, by either leaving a comment here or on YouTube under the video.

Wishing you and your pets a calm and peaceful week ahead,

With love,


Ferris.

Tap along and feel the difference for yourself (see disclaimer below).Schedule a mini consultation with me here https://calendly.com/ferrisjay to find out ho...

23/03/2025

I posted this picture for back in 2017.

That was Sally’s last year in physical ( she was in her 20s by then).

Even as a ‘golden oldie’ she still acted like a puppy, she was such a joyful soul.

I always called her a puppy and I believe that helped her keep her youthful spirit right into her end days.

She was also the star of the show in my YouTube videos for many years.

Take a moment today to celebrate the puppies - young and young at heart that have brightened up your lives.

May that puppy spirit live on in our hearts and keep shining, even years later.

Post a picture so we can all admire them.

20/03/2025

A thought for pet guardians on International Day of Happiness.

Today is International Day of Happiness.

We shouldn't need a special day to remember that our happiness matters, but we can forget so often that I'm all in for reminding us today.

Our happiness is really important for our physical, mental, emotional and spiritual health and well-being.

As pet guardians your animals are a really important part of your life and keeping them healthy and happy helps keep you happy too.


Sometimes our pets can be one of our main sources of happiness in life - after all they are such a source of unconditional love, often our confidants, snuggle buddies and so much more.


However, if we place all our happiness ‘eggs’ in that one ‘basket’, it can be really tough if there is a time when our pet is unwell or ages or indeed when they die.


That’s why I encourage people to find a whole range of things, often small things, to raise their happiness levels.

At the moment I don't have any pets of my own.

I still find many ways to cultivate happiness, even though I really miss having a furry companion.

Today was the Spring equinox here, so I took some time out in nature to celebrate that.


Even on a busy day, I still find plenty of activities, some really short, to raise my happiness levels.


Here's what that looks like for me.

- Enjoying feeling the sun on my face.

- Walking in nature and stopping to watch the fish in the stream.

- Taking pictures of the flowers in all their beauty.

- Making a new friend - Zazu the parrot.

- Dancing - even if it's just round the kitchen.

- Practicing qi gong - even if it's just a little shaking or stretching.

- Playing handpan - even just 5 mins.

- Savouring a cup of tea - nettle is my favourite at the moment.

- Taking time to ask what I need right now.

For you, it could be completely different, let me know by leaving a comment under this post.

What is it that lights you up?

Whatever that is - do more of it! Please.

I know there are a lot of things that can seem to get in the way of our happiness, especially when our beloved pets are unwell - that's why I do the work I do, to help them and you, to reduce any distress or suffering.

If life seems hard for you right now, or if it's not easy for you to feel happy, know that while we may feel that we can't change every outer circumstance, we can change how we feel.

We can change our energy levels, thoughts and beliefs - and that can transform our ability to feel happy.

It also usually results in changes in our outer circumstances - when we change on the inside, that's reflected on the outside.

As well as helping pets and guardians when your pets are challenged, I also help people overcome stress and anxiety and resolve their health and wellbeing challenges, so they can truly thrive.

If you're struggling right now and want to know how I can help you with that, reply to this message or book a free consultation call with me at https://calendly.com/ferrisjay

Prices currently start at €250 for a mini 2 x 1 zoom session package, with email support inbetween.


I'd love for you to enjoy your life to the full, if you aren't already, and truly experience vibrant health and happiness.

And here's wishing you all a happy Equinox today.

With love,

Ferris.

20/03/2025

Me and the garden Buddha want to wish you all a happy equinox. May the Spring bring fresh new energy to our lives and projects. May we move with strength and grace into this next phase of the year, this phase of growth and rising energy. It’s a great time for starting new projects and rejuvenating our mind body and spirit with fresh energy and inspiration. How will you greet the Spring? ( or the Autumn if you’re in the Southern Hemisphere?)