06/04/2026
I’m walking 100 miles this month for the American Cancer Society, and one of the reasons starts with my grandpa.
He was one of those rare people who could fit into almost any setting. Put him in a checked flannel shirt with a fishing rod and he was the great outdoorsman. Put him in a tux at a wedding and he became Mr. Suave, twirling the ladies around the ballroom. Put him in a suit on the sales floor and he was an astute businessman.
But more than anything, he was fun.
Our family gatherings were legendary. My grandparents lived on an acreage and we had huge parties with the whole extended family. We also loved to camp, and some of my favorite memories are riding copilot in the RV singing Neil Diamond’s “Sweet Caroline” (his favorite song) on the way to some wilderness campground.
I also remember waltzing with him at my cousin’s wedding — while stepping all over his feet — and bouncing around in the front seat of his pickup while we hauled water long before seatbelts were a thing. He even made chores fun.
During WWII he worked as an airplane mechanic in Scotland. Later he and my grandma raised five kids, around a dozen grandchildren, and more great-grandchildren than I can count. Before he got sick, they spent about ten years traveling across the U.S. and Canada in their RV.
When he was diagnosed, we were devastated. We watched him slowly decline — losing his appetite first for food, and eventually for life.
My last memory is visiting him in the hospital to say goodbye. But by then he was already gone, lost in a drug-induced haze in his final hours.
His loss was profound. He had been the glue that held our big family together, and while my grandma tried valiantly to keep everyone connected, it was never quite the same.
This April I’m walking 100 miles to raise money for the American Cancer Society in honor of the people we’ve lost and the families still fighting.
So far I’ve walked 18.53 miles, and I’ll be sharing updates along the way.
If you’d like to support the cause or follow along, you can visit my fundraiser here:
https://www.facebook.com/donate/905440795457133/
Thank you to everyone who has already donated.