01/20/2020
A couple years ago my brother, after several months of convincing, dragged me into the world of mountain biking. I started out on the so called 29er, the status quo for any serious mountain biker. I did not enjoy it at all. I really did try. Before abandoning it all together, I utilized the REI return policy and swapped for an identical frame, but with 27.5" wheels instead of 29" wheels. I immediately noticed the difference and haven't looked back. Now, with the right equipment, I love mountain biking. It is another way to get out and enjoy the outdoors.
Naturally, I wanted to share my new love with my family. I bought a bike for my son. I started with the standard 24" full rigid mountain bike with 2" tires. He was not loving it like I thought he would. I didn't need him to be an all-world shredder, but I did think he would take to it a little better. He just did not feel comfortable on the bike and was pretty skiddy on our loose AZ trails. I bit the bullet and sacrificed my REI dividend to switch up his ride. Two major changes that made all the difference; disk brakes and plus tires. With 2.8" tubeless tires and disk brakes he had all sorts of traction and control. The improvement in riding and increased enjoyment was immediate. He was grinding up climbs that stopped him in his tracks previously, and hitting downhills with more confidence.
So, I finally decided it was time to get my wife in the game so she could join in the fun. However, I knew from what I had learned with my bike and my son's bike, her success and enjoyment were going to come down to finding the right bike. Enter the Jamis Bikes Dragonfly. A weird bike that doesn't seem to fit in with the current mountain bike world. A 26" hardtail with plus tires, but not fat tires. Made from steel instead of aluminum or carbon. A tiny frame with short reach. All of those things that probably make it a bit of joke to serious mountain bikers makes it perfect for my wife. We hit the dirt for the first time as a family and had a great time. Special shoutout to Kyle at Jenson USA for helping find the perfect bike.
The point of this post is to highlight THREE really important lessons.
1.) Equipment matters. This doesn't mean buying the most expensive gear, or having what all the "real" mountain bikers/hikers/backpackers/whatever-ers have. It means finding comfortable gear that fits you and gets you excited to go out and get into it.
2.) Try new things. I always thought I would hate mountain biking. I am fairly risk averse when it comes to anything that would prevent me from doing the things I really love for a really long time. I've been surprised how much fun I am having mountain biking. Know your limits, stop making everything a competition or comparison and just have fun.
3.) Be patient when sharing. If you want to get someone you love into any outdoor activity, be patient. Remember that the reason for getting them into it is to spend time with them and allow them to feel the excitement and exhilaration that comes from exploring the outdoors. The level of activity that will accomplish that feeling is different for each individual. You didn't bring them along to push you or keep up with you. You brought them along to be with you and help spark their own interest in whatever the activity is.
With that, get out there and try something new; just make sure you give it the best chance of success by grabbing the right gear.