09/25/2020
It's been several months since I've last posted anything. The Coronavirus has really shaken up the world, as well as the birth world! I wasn't able to attend three births in April because of the hospital restriction due to the pandemic. It was hard to miss them and each couple responded in a different way to my not being there. Two of the couples just texted me progress reports of what was happening and only one of those asked for any advice. The third couple included me in their birth via FaceTime. It was difficult not being there to help, but I at least felt more involved. The dad was so sweet to "move me" (his phone!) around the room so I could see what was going on! The hospitals were just opening up when my fourth client went into labor and that was a great birth for us all! Now that the hospitals are considering doulas as essential medical workers, I was able to attend the most recent three births. It still isn't the same as before the virus - not only is wearing a mask for hours uncomfortable, but I don't feel like I'm connecting with the couple as well as before, and not connecting at all with the medical staff. You could line them up after a birth, and without their name tags, I wouldn't recognize them at all! I'll try to post something more positive and educational next time!🙂