Wandering Weightlessly

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06/20/2026

"He's just so adorable." 🐆✨

Yes. Yes, he is. That sweet angel voice, those chubby baby cheeks, and a heart completely full of pure awe and innocence.

Man, it goes by so fast.

But the absolute greatest gift of my recovery? I was there. I didn’t blink and miss it. I wasn't foggy, I wasn't distracted, and I wasn't waiting for the next drink.

I was entirely present. I was locked into his joy. And because of the beautiful gift of sobriety, I get to keep and remember this exact moment for the rest of my life.

Sober travel isn't about what you are missing out on—it’s about everything you are finally clear-eyed enough to take in. 🤍

When I plan a trip, my checklist usually revolves around packing, itineraries, and finding the best local coffee spots. ...
06/19/2026

When I plan a trip, my checklist usually revolves around packing, itineraries, and finding the best local coffee spots. I look at a map, pick a destination, and just go.

I recognize that I have the privilege of travel without worry. But that hasn't always been the reality for everyone, and historically, the open road wasn't equally open.

This is the cover of The Negro Motorist Green Book from 1940. Founded by Victor H. Green, it wasn't just a travel guide; it was a literal survival tool. During Jim Crow, Black travelers couldn't just pull over at any motel, eat at any diner, or buy gas at any station. The Green Book mapped out the safe havens—the hotels, restaurants, and service stations where Black families could find safety, dignity, and shelter on their journeys.

As a parent of a mixed-race child—of which I am neither race—history isn't just something confined to a textbook. It’s a roadmap of how we got here, and it shapes how I look at the world my son is growing up in. Seeing him explore, laugh, and move through the world with joy and weightlessness is something I celebrate every single day.

On Juneteenth, we celebrate freedom, resilience, and the incredible journeys of those who paved the way. We have come a long way from the days when a guidebook was required just to drive across state lines safely.

But as we celebrate that progress, we also acknowledge that there is still a long way to go to ensure that every traveler—no matter their race—can move through this world fully free, safe, and without worry.

Today, we honor the past, celebrate the freedom of the present, and keep working toward a more inclusive future for the next generation of explorers. Happy Juneteenth, everyone. 🤎✨

Happy International Picnic Day! 🧺✨If you’re looking for the ultimate sign to pack a basket and get outside today, this i...
06/18/2026

Happy International Picnic Day! 🧺✨

If you’re looking for the ultimate sign to pack a basket and get outside today, this is it. And you don’t have to travel halfway across the world to find a magical spot.

One of our planned stops in Columbus was the oh-so-fun Topiary Park! It is a literal, living 3D recreation of Georges Seurat’s famous post-impressionist painting, A Sunday on La Grande Jatte. Stepping right into a masterpiece with a blanket and some snacks? Absolute perfection.

It reminded me of two of my favorite travel rules:

1. Be a Tourist in Your Hometown
We often think we need to board a flight to explore, but there are so many unique, quirky, and beautiful spaces right in our own backyards (or just a short road trip away) waiting to be discovered.

2. The Power of the Packed Picnic
Whether you are exploring a new city or hanging out at a local park, packing your own picnic is a total travel hack. Not only is it a relaxed, weightless way to slow down and take in a destination exactly like the locals do, but—hello, huge savings! Skipping the sit-down restaurant tourist traps means more money left in your wallet for the next big adventure.

So grab a blanket, toss some sandwiches in a bag, and go create some new memories today.

Where is your absolute favorite local spot to set up a picnic? Drop it in the comments below! 👇

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06/18/2026

Does a bear sh*t in the woods? 🐻 Standard question.

But does a Duck Fart in Alaska? 🦆💨 Absolutely—and it’s a total rite of passage.

If you’re planning your Juneau cruise port day, stepping through the swinging doors of the historic Red Dog Saloon is an absolute must. It’s a classic frontier-style tavern right off the docks on Franklin Street, complete with sawdust on the floor and a massive taxidermy bear hanging right in the middle of the room.

But despite the local wildlife, the number one thing everyone talks about here is a drink with a very unappealing name: The Duck Fart.

What is a Duck Fart?
It’s a sweet, layered shot that actually originated right here in Alaska. It’s a smooth, layered combination of:

KahlĂşa (coffee liqueur)

Bailey’s Irish Cream

Crown Royal Canadian Whisky

🚫 Staying Alcohol-Free? You Can Still Join the Fun!
You don't need to drink alcohol to enjoy the historic, old-school atmosphere or the live music.

If you want a fantastic alternative that still feels authentic to the saloon vibe, ask the bartender for a frosty mug of their Alaskan-made Draft Root Beer on tap. It’s thick, rich, locally brewed, and pairs perfectly with a bowl of popcorn while you take in all the crazy history on the walls.

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Sometimes, the most productive thing you can do is absolutely nothing, in a place that looks exactly like this. 🌲✨When w...
06/17/2026

Sometimes, the most productive thing you can do is absolutely nothing, in a place that looks exactly like this. 🌲✨

When we get caught in the mid-week hustle, we tend to romanticize the idea of a massive, far-away vacation. We think we need to escape across the world to find peace.

But the truth is, if your nervous system is completely red-lined, a hectic, over-scheduled itinerary will just leave you exhausted in a prettier location.

You don’t need to run away. You need a Why-cation.

A Why-cation is a deliberate, low-friction pause designed entirely to clear the digital noise, reset your physical baseline, and give you that weightless headspace right where you are. It’s about stepping away from the screen to remember why you are building the life you’re building.

I used some of my favorite peaceful views to illustrate my latest article, Planning for Peace: The "Whycation" Guide, which is officially live on the blog.

If you are ready to learn how to plan a mental reset that actually heals your burnout without breaking your budget, click the link below to read the full philosophy.

👇 Read the full framework and start planning your reset:

06/17/2026

Let’s be honest: by Wednesday at 11:00 AM, most of our brains look and sound exactly like this video. Just an absolute, churning, boiling-over mess of open mental tabs, mid-week work deadlines, and family logistics. 🌀🤯

When you hit that hump-day wall, your first instinct is usually to open a travel site and frantically look up flights to anywhere that isn't your desk.

But here is a little secret from the tub: it looks like it’s boiling, but this water is actually completely temperate. It’s a total illusion.

And that vacation you’re daydreaming about? It might be an illusion too. If you are completely burnt out, booking a hyper-scheduled, high-cost trip where you drag your exhausted nervous system through three airports and a packed itinerary isn’t going to fix it. You’ll just come back needing a vacation from your vacation.

You don’t need a getaway. You need a Why-cation.

A Why-cation is a deliberate, low-friction pause designed to do one thing: completely reset your nervous system, mute the digital noise, and let you find a weightless headspace right where you are so you can remember why you are working so hard in the first place.

I just dropped a full guide on the blog breaking down the philosophy of the Why-cation—and exactly how to plan a sensory reset that actually heals your burnout without fracturing your budget.

👇 Click the link below to read Planning for Peace: The "Whycation" Guide and turn down the heat on your week!

Science officially gave you permission to book the flight. ✈️🧬If your definition of "self-care" is staring at cruise iti...
06/16/2026

Science officially gave you permission to book the flight. ✈️🧬

If your definition of "self-care" is staring at cruise itineraries and flight maps at midnight, your brain might be running on the DRD4-7R gene.

Commonly known as the Wanderlust Gene, this little piece of DNA completely flips the script on how we experience routine. For people with neurodivergent brains or those walking a path of recovery, understanding this gene is the ultimate key to unlocking a guilt-free life.

You aren't flighty. You aren't unstable. You're just a bird. 🦅

I’ve mapped out the connection between this restless receptor, dopamine, and why our souls demand the sea in my brand-new piece.

🔗 Click the link in my bio to read the full article and find out where you land on the bird-vs-tree spectrum!

06/16/2026

No gatekeeping here: I work a regular desk job and my income is mid at best. 🤷‍♀️ But in 2024, I managed to pull off the literal trip of my son’s dreams.

This video is from one of my absolute favorite, most serendipitous moments in Paris. We didn’t schedule it, we didn’t pay for tickets, and we didn’t plan it. We just stumbled upon these incredible buskers and stayed to watch the magic happen. ✨

That is the beauty of traveling weightlessly. When you aren't carrying a heavy financial hangover, you actually have the mental space to enjoy the unplanned moments.

I didn’t fund this trip with a secret inheritance or a mountain of credit card debt. I did it through a highly disciplined, strategic approach to my everyday finances (including a very specific logic on how I bought my last car -paid in full in 4 months with a discount and a very strategic sign on bonus that funded part of this trip!).

If a single mom with a modest budget can make Paris happen debt-free, you can absolutely do it too.

I just put the exact framework, the math, and the timeline I used into my latest blog post: The Weightless Wander Challenge. Link in comments or bio!



👇 Click the link below to read the full breakdown, shed the financial weight, and start planning your next escape!

06/15/2026

Think Alaska is just cold, grey ice? Think again. 🏔️✨

What you’re looking at isn’t a doctored travel brochure. It’s an untouched, emerald-green rainforest bursting with cascading mountainside waterfalls. It’s vibrant, glacial teal water dotted with ancient blue ice gems floating right past your window.

And yes—the rumors are true. The whales will show off for you out here. 🐋

This is just a regular Tuesday at sea when you do Alaska the right way. You don’t need a premium balcony to experience this kind of luxury; you just need to know the ship’s hidden vantage points where you can sink into a plush lounger, wrap yourself in comfort, and watch the wilderness glide by.

Stop scrolling past your bucket list and let’s start checking it off.

Whether you’re looking for a peaceful, weightless solo escape or want to sail with an incredible community of like-minded travelers, I’m ready to curate your perfect Alaska adventure.

🚢 Ready to stand on this deck? Drop a 🏔️ or a 🐋 in the comments below, or send me a DM right now, and let’s get you booked!

06/14/2026

Facing Mortality and Rebuilding Trust after Addiction: Mara's journey through sober weight loss and healing. 🕊️✨

When you have a history of making mistakes, the hardest thing to reclaim isn’t your routine—it’s your equity.

In Part 2 of our exclusive feature, Mara opens up about the quiet, unglamorous work of building a life wide awake. From losing 100+ lbs and stepping into the profound space of a Certified Death Doula, to navigating family trust and laughing next to camels on a sober cruise through the Middle East—this is a masterclass in full-circle expansion.

If you are a newcomer standing at the bottom of an impossible mountain right now, Mara’s story is the exact sign from the universe you’ve been waiting for. You don’t have to climb the whole mountain today. You just have to take the next step.

🔗 PART 2 IS NOW LIVE ON THE BLOG.

Drop the weight and expand your map with us:
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