
06/07/2025
"I don't know what I don't know. I don't even know what questions to ask. I am totally in over my head."
This past weekend wasn't the first time I had a client reach out to me and say something to this effect. In fact, this weekend I had TWO new clients reach out to me and express the same frustration and overwhelm in navigating their own travel plans.
Like most of my other clients that have expressed the same sentiments, these clients are people who have historically planned their own travel experiences and nimbly and efficiently navigate booking websites and busy itineraries. But now that they're going to a foreign country, that same swagger and ease once defining their roles as the "family travel planner" has totally disappeared.
My most favorite clients to work with are the ones who are brand new to working with travel advisors- individuals who appreciate that a lot of work goes into curating the *perfect* vacation. Individuals who can swallow their pride and admit (out loud, to a stranger) "I don't know what I'm doing."
And no, it isn't because of some weird ego boost I get from a client needing or wanting my assistance, but because I get so much enjoyment out of meeting my clients where they're at. My heart soars when I can get on their level and take their hand as we stroll through the travel planning journey *together*.
During each and every consultation call, I tell my prospective clients "This is a collaborative relationship. We work together to realize what you're envisioning so that your vacation feels unparalleled and so explicitly *you*."
As a travel advisor, I wear many hats. In no particular order, some are....
1. Educator
2. Consultant
3. Strategist
4. Concierge
5. Therapist
6. Researcher
7. Problem-Solver
8. Advocate
9. Friend (my favorite!!!)
My job can be described a lot of ways and can mean a lot of things to a lot of people, but each role or description has one thing in common -- I am here to empower you.
I am not here to crap on your ideas. I am not here to dump my travel bucket list on you. I'm not here to force you into a box, assuming travel to any particular destination can only be done one way.
I am here to help you find a little more meaning in your trips. I am here to match you with experiences that teach you something new about yourself. I am here to help guide you to places that unleash something powerful within you.
So when a client comes to me and says "I just don't know where to begin", I lace up my boots and begin a relationship full of empathy, mystique, understanding, and love - one to help calm the storm in your mind and help you embark on your next journey with clear goals and principles, with plenty of room left in your suitcase for souvenirs and memories.
So when you find yourself feeling like 4-year old Alexa, donned in your Minnie Mouse costume, absolutely frustrated and defeated beyond comfort, let's talk. Won't you take my hand and set sail on this journey together?