05/26/2026
TUESDAY TEACHINGS: The Courage to Emerge
Moths crawl from their cocoons. Small ferns push through the soil and begin to unfurl. Bears surface from their hibernation dens. Spring is a time when life slowly emerges from the long winter slumber.
It is finally warming up enough to see life springing forth! As a kid I loved thinking about caterpillars transforming into beautiful butterflies. Last spring I was SO excited to see a monarch chrysalis underneath my deck rail. I checked it every day, waiting for the emergence of the beautiful insect. One morning I went out to discover, in horror, that something had made a snack of the bright green chrysalis.
I’ve been following the progress of the butterfly chrysalides at the Liberty Hyde Bailey Museum & Gardens on their page. One of the painted lady butterflies arrived with a torn wing. It was reported that she would remain in captivity so she could be properly cared for and have a nice life.
That got me thinking. We celebrate and revere the fully formed butterfly in all its beauty. But what about the monarch butterfly that never got to live, or this painted lady that may never fly? Butterflies mirror the human experience. Both are fragile, vulnerable to their surroundings, yet capable of great things. Both are transformative. The potential of both the unhatched monarch and the injured painted lady does not disappear because their journeys unfolded differently than expected.
Transformation is painful. The caterpillar basically liquifies before becoming something new. It surrenders its former self before emerging. Emerging requires courage. It leaves the safety of its protective casing for a completely foreign and unknown world, not knowing if its wings will carry it. There is something so brave about leaving what is comfortable in the quest for growth. Often the most difficult part of growth is not becoming something new, or trying something new, but finding the courage to simply step out on the path toward a better version of yourself. We celebrate those who are fully formed, strong, and confident. But how often do we overlook the quiet bravery it takes to even emerge in the first place?
Perhaps a deeper question is not whether those two butterflies met their potential, but whether we truly understand the meaning of potential. Potential might more accurately describe the fact that our worth is not dependent on perfection, transformation isn’t always pretty. Maybe we might not reach our fully formed self, like the eaten monarch, but even then it provided another living thing the opportunity to reach its own potential.
A butterfly with a broken wing may not be able to travel far, but it might still manage to pollinate. Its existence still matters. In the same way, people who struggle, who carry wounds, or have disabilities still possess immense value. Their lives can nurture others through compassion, wisdom, resilience, or simply their presence. Some of the kindest people are those who know what it feels like to emerge wounded and continue thriving anyway. Life does not have to be perfect or pretty to be meaningful. We just need to own our worth and fight to reach for the stars...no matter how rough the journey.
I love this photo from the museum's post. This beautiful little butterfly recently emerged from its protective case. I imagine her looking at her shadow, so large and imposing, and thinking, "Boy! I am so big and strong! I can conquer the world." I wish all of us could see our own potential like this. It may not be pretty. It may not be easy. But we are all on the path to reach our greatest potential. May we all embrace that journey like this delicate little insect sees her own shadow. She knows her worth!
Do you know yours?
Photo credit: Liberty Hyde Bailey Museum & Gardens.