03/13/2016
I've kept quiet about this for way too long. It's time to share the story about what can happen when good people collide with bad people.
5 and a half years ago, I met Vittorio Sodano. We became good friends. He confided in me that he was very ill, and feared that he would not have much longer to live. His dream was to live in America and win an Oscar. I knew what that felt like, from barely surviving cancer myself. I wanted to *pay it forward* to the Universe by making a profound difference in someone else's life, so I offered to marry him so he could become a resident of the US. We married, but never filed for the residency. He rented a shop in North Hollywood, and we planned on running it together as a second location for his FX Academy in Rome.
After the wedding, we went to Rome together, but he stayed there and I came back to L.A. He abandoned the shop he rented, and since I was married to him, the owners came after me. Not only did they stick me with the 3-year/$50,000 lease, they filed an eviction and lien, which is now on MY credit.
Here's what happens when you have an eviction/lien on your credit: You will never be able to rent another property until that lease is paid for. Because of this, I cannot RENT any property, much less buy one, in the future. I can't get another place to live, and I have been forced to couch-hop and live in my car for the last 6 weeks.
I have been begging Vittorio for YEARS to at least TRY to settle some of this debt. I have hired attorney after attorney, spending MY money, trying to get him to pay something, ANYTHING, to get this burden off my shoulders. I sent him divorce papers three times (each time costing over $1,000), and he would not sign them. I fought and fought with the owners of that shop, to no avail. They have destroyed my credit, and have rendered me completely helpless to get another place to live or work. No shop means no business, and no income. I lost my business & income because of Vittorio Sodano. I am homeless because of Vittorio Sodano.
I have begged him to do the right thing, time and time again. Finally his boyfriend Anthony Antonio Alty agreed to pay HALF of Vittorio's debt (he claims to be *rich*), which would have settled the entire thing in court, and cleared my name. He promised to do this way back in September, and asked me to give him four months. Four months rolled around, and he still kept promising to pay. Six months later, and they have both disappeared, leaving me in the worst situation I have ever been in my life.
I have no other options than to tell this story to his peers in the makeup community, in hopes that the exposure will trigger him to pay his debt. I'm a good, honest, hard-working person who only tried to help someone in need, and this is how he repaid me: by taking my life from me. So much for being the God-fearing Catholic he claims to be. I don't know how people like this can sleep at night.