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Gay Pasley, actor.Her pose is lifted, almost devotional—chin tilted toward the unseen horizon, body balanced between ele...
03/07/2026

Gay Pasley, actor.

Her pose is lifted, almost devotional—chin tilted toward the unseen horizon, body balanced between elegance and strength. Draped in white against an open field of light, she stands like a page waiting to be written. The green heels cut through the quiet like punctuation.

It is the posture of someone who knows where she’s going.

Booked the role.
Details soon.

“Gay Pasley, actor.”And it will keep the green heel visible, which is an important visual punctuation in the image.If yo...
03/07/2026

“Gay Pasley, actor.”

And it will keep the green heel visible, which is an important visual punctuation in the image.

If you want, I can also show you one tiny Instagram trick actors use that quietly signals to casting directors that you just booked something without sounding like self-promotion. It’s subtle, but it works. 🎬

JOIN US THIS SAT!Artist Talk + Closing Reception, 2pm, Saturday, February 28, with Guest Speaker, Michelle Burdex, Progr...
02/28/2026

JOIN US THIS SAT!
Artist Talk + Closing Reception, 2pm, Saturday, February 28, with Guest Speaker, Michelle Burdex, Program Coordinator, Greenwood Cultural Center, who will reflect on how she takes permission to breathe within cultural leadership and everyday life.

MEET ARTIST GAY PASLEY: Gay Pasley is a writer, photographer, and actor whose work explores how history and inheritance live in the body. Born in Antigua and raised in North Tulsa, she moves between archive and embodiment, examining estrangement, Black maternal legacy, and survival across generations. Through self-portraiture and performance, she reconsiders the images and narratives that shape memory and belonging.

She is the recipient of the Tulsa Paragon Award for her advocacy with victims of sexual assault and the Southwest Everett Literary Award for her hybrid memoir My Story Begins in Water. Her work resists easy resolution, returning to questions of breath, lineage, and the cost of survival.

Pasley is also a registered nurse of more than three decades, practicing across the full arc of life. She has held newborns still wet with first breath and clasped hands when the last breath left, guiding families through moments that divide before from after. That lived proximity to beginnings and endings grounds her artistic practice, where the body is not metaphor but witness.

The Voyage of the Venus Desable: From Africa to Antigua to America is available for acquisition. Pricing and purchase inquiries may be directed to the gallery. This work stands as both visual narrative and historical reclamation — an opportunity for collectors to steward a living dialogue between migration, memory, and breath.

“Permission to Breathe: A Black Woman’s Perspective on Living Life Unapologetically”
Curated by Artists Ebony Iman Dallas + Elizabeth Feather Henley + Jaiden Jiji McClellan

ARTIST TALK + CLOSING RECEPTION: 2pm, Sat, Feb 28

Gallery hours:
TH 6–8pm
FR 5–8pm
SA 12–5pm
   •   BY APPT

Contact: Nicole Finley, Director .finley – Positive Space Tulsa
[email protected]

I am grieving the death of Dr. Janell Green Smith, and I am thinking carefully about what her death asks of us.Maternal ...
01/04/2026

I am grieving the death of Dr. Janell Green Smith, and I am thinking carefully about what her death asks of us.

Maternal death is rising in the United States. That reality alone should demand urgency. No qualifier is required.

And still, Black women continue to die at the highest rates—across income, education, geography, and profession. This has been true for decades. It is not newly discovered. It is not ambiguous.

The danger is not evenly distributed, and it never has been. What is new is not the harm, but the attention it receives when it spreads.

Her life’s work was shaped by that knowledge. Her death exposes how little protection expertise, preparation, or proximity to medicine actually provide Black women.

I am not interested in comparisons that flatten the truth. I am interested in accountability that faces it.

Some systems do not fail by accident. They fail by pattern. And patterns persist until they are named without distraction.

To support Dr. Green Smith’s family:
https://www.gofundme.com/f/dr-janell-green-smiths-family






HealthEquity
ReproductiveJustice
Midwifery
PublicHealth
PatientSafety
MaternalHealth
BlackHealth
EndMaternalMortality
JusticeInHealthcare
SaveBlackMothers

Muchness restored.             #2026
12/28/2025

Muchness restored. #2026

Repost from •❤️‍🩹 World AIDS Day ❤️‍🩹Today we honor Black women — whose lives, stories, and health deserve visibility an...
12/01/2025

Repost from

❤️‍🩹 World AIDS Day ❤️‍🩹
Today we honor Black women — whose lives, stories, and health deserve visibility and protection.

Black women continue to face higher risk, delayed diagnosis, and barriers to treatment. This is not about personal choices — it is about systems, access, stigma, and inequity.

The NBNA Black Maternal Health Equity Committee stands with Black women in:
✨ Prevention
✨ Early diagnosis
✨ Access to treatment
✨ Stigma-free care and support

We see you. We advocate with you. We are fighting for a future where Black women are fully informed, supported, and safe.

NBNA BlackMaternalHealth EndTheStigma 💜

It's clear that New Mexico's nickname, the land of enchantment, is well-deserved.
02/16/2025

It's clear that New Mexico's nickname, the land of enchantment, is well-deserved.

12/30/2024
I have been reading, ‘The Four Agreements for a Better Life written by don Miguel Ruiz and fell in love with a dream tha...
08/19/2024

I have been reading, ‘The Four Agreements for a Better Life written by don Miguel Ruiz and fell in love with a dream that he shared between its pages…

My gift to you:

We are going to share a beautiful dream together- a dream that you will love to have all of the time. In this dream you are in the middle of a beautiful, warm sunny day. You hear the birds, the wind, and a little river. You walk toward the river. At the edge of the river is an old man in meditation and you see that out of his head comes a beautiful light of different colors. You try not to bother him, but he notices your presence and opens his eyes. He has the kind of eyes that are full of love and a big smile. You ask him how he is able to radiate all of that beautiful light. You ask him if he can teach you to do what he is doing. He replies that many, many years ago he asked the same question of his teacher.

The old man begins to tell you his story: “My teacher opened his chest and took out his heart, and he took a beautiful flame from his heart. Then he opened my chest, opened my heart, and he put that little flame inside it. He put my heart back in my chest, and as soon as my heart was inside me, I felt intense love, because the flame he put in my heart was his own love.

“That flame grew in my heart and became a big, big fire that doesn’t burn, but purifies everything that it touches. And that fire touched each one of the cells of my body, and the cells of my body loved me back. I became one with my body, but my love grew even more. That fire touched every emotion of my mind, and all the emotions transformed into a strong intense love. And I loved myself, completely and unconditionally.

“But the fire kept burning and I had the need to share my love. I decided to put a little piece of my love in every tree, and the trees loved me back, and I became one with the trees, but my love did not stop, it grew more. I put a piece of love in every flower, in the grass, in the earth and they moved me back, and we became one. And my love grew more and more to love every animal in the world. They responded to my love and they loved me back, and we became one. But my love kept growing and growing.

“I put a piece of my love in every crystal, in every stone in the ground, in the dirt, in the metals, and they loved me back, and I became one with the earth. And then I decided to put my love in the water, in the oceans, in the rivers, in the rain, in the snow. And they loved me back and we became one. And still my love grew more and more. I decided to give my love to the air, to the wind. I felt strong communion with the earth, with the wind, with the oceans, with nature, and my love grew and grew.

“I turned my head to the sky, to the sun, to the stars, and put a little piece of my love in every star, in the moon, in the sun, and they loved me back. And I became one with the moon and the sun and the stars, and my love kept growing and growing. And I put a little piece of my love in every human, and I became one with the whole of humanity. Wherever I go, whomever I meet, I see myself in their eyes, because I am a part of everything, because I love.”

And then the old man opens his own chest, takes out his heart with that beautiful flame inside, and he puts that flame in your heart. And now that love is growing inside of you. Now you are one with the wind, with the water, with the stars, with all of nature, with all animals, and with all humans. You feel the heat and the light emanating from the flame in your heart. Out of your heard shines a beautiful light of different colors. You are radiant with the glow of love and pray:

Thank you, Creator of the Universe, for the gift of life you have given me. Thank you for giving me everything that I have ever truly needed. Thank you for the opportunity to experience this beautiful body and this wonderful mind. Thank you for living inside of me with all your love, with your pure and boundless spirit, with your warm and radiant light. Thank you for using my words, for using my eyes, for using my heart to share your love wherever I go. I love you just the way that you are, and because I am Your creation, I love myself just the way that I am. Help me to keep that love and the peace in my heart and to make that love a new way of life, that I may live in love the rest of my life. Amen

07/14/2024

I’m so grateful for all the amazing people in my life who have made this year so special. Thank you for all your birthday wishes!
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