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The OLD Troy's Got Issues Craving a romantic escape? ❤️🌿 We’re Troy & Mary (12 yrs together!). Slots filling fast! DM to book!

We created this 100% private retreat in Costa Rica for couples to reconnect, reignite passion & enjoy nature in the prettiest country on Earth!

Which stage is your marriage in today? 💭Almost no one notices when love starts to fade. It doesn't happen overnight. It ...
10/18/2026

Which stage is your marriage in today? 💭

Almost no one notices when love starts to fade. It doesn't happen overnight. It happens little by little:

One more phone scroll.
One less conversation.
One "let's talk later" that never comes.

And one day you realize you live under the same roof, but you no longer walk together. 💔

Be honest with yourself:
👉 When did you last look into each other's eyes without distractions?
👉 When did you last laugh together until it hurt?
👉 When did you last say "I miss you" while sitting side by side?

The good news? Love that has been neglected can be cared for again. You don't have to wait for a crisis. You only have to decide to choose each other once more. 🤍

At Couples Costa Rica, we create a space outside your routine: private, peaceful, with a pool and outdoor cinema, so the two of you can slow down, laugh, and reconnect. 🌴🌅

If you feel you both need that break, send us a private message. We'd love to tell you more. 💌

❤️🌹 MY ENTIRE LIFE, I WANT TO GROW OLD WITH YOU ❤️♾️My darling, I don’t just want to spend my days with you—I want to gr...
10/16/2026

❤️🌹 MY ENTIRE LIFE, I WANT TO GROW OLD WITH YOU ❤️♾️

My darling, I don’t just want to spend my days with you—I want to grow old by your side, watching the years gently pass, only to look into your eyes and feel that same magical spark that made me fall head over heels for you. 🥹❤️
I long for a love that deepens with every single sunrise, a love so patient, true, and rich that when we reach the end of our journey, we can smile with tears of joy, knowing that choosing each other was the greatest blessing of our lives.
When our steps grow slow and fragile, and time leaves its soft marks upon us, I still want to hold you tight, kiss your forehead, and whisper straight from my soul: “If God granted me a thousand lifetimes, I would search for you and choose you in every single one of them.” 💋❤️
You are not just my present; you are my forever dream, my home, and the very beat of my heart. I will love you endlessly… today, tomorrow, and for all eternity. ❤️♾️🌹

WHY WE FIGHT WHEN WE FEAR LOSING EACH OTHER 💔​There is a silent pattern that slowly breaks couples apart: when the storm...
10/16/2026

WHY WE FIGHT WHEN WE FEAR LOSING EACH OTHER 💔

​There is a silent pattern that slowly breaks couples apart: when the storm hits, one runs to find answers, while the other looks for a place to hide.

​And the louder one knocks on the door, the deeper the other retreats...

​We rarely realize that behind both reactions lies the very same fear. The one who desperately reaches out is terrified of emotional distance, afraid that silence will fade the love. And the one who steps away isn't doing so out of indifference, but out of a deep fear that words will turn into wounds.

​Healing this pattern takes courage and immense tenderness:

​🌱 If you are the heart that pursues: Learn to offer gentle pauses. Pushing in the middle of anger doesn't bring you closer; it only overwhelms. Say softly: "Let's talk tomorrow when our hearts are calm." Giving a set time restores peace and shows you're protecting the bond, not attacking.

​🕊️ If you are the heart that needs space: Don't leave in silence. Unexplained distance feels like abandonment. Simply say: "I feel overwhelmed right now, but I promise we will sit down and talk tonight." And when the time comes, keep your word—that is how you rebuild security.

​✨ Love isn't sustained by winning arguments, but by holding space for each other's vulnerability. You don't both need to change at the exact same moment; it only takes one person choosing love over fear to rewrite the story.

​Have you ever identified with one of these two sides? I'd love to read your thoughts below. 👇🏼

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WHEN APOLOGIES STOP BEING ENOUGH 💔​They talked about it. They apologized. They promised it would never happen again.And ...
10/16/2026

WHEN APOLOGIES STOP BEING ENOUGH 💔
​They talked about it. They apologized. They promised it would never happen again.
And then... it happened again.
​The first time, the mistake itself hurts. But by the third time, what hurts the most isn't even the mistake—it’s the broken promise. It’s the feeling that your heart and your trust are being taken for granted.
​If you feel trapped in a cycle of repeated mistakes and empty promises, here is how you can break the loop:
​1️⃣ Stop having the same conversation: If you’ve already talked about this three times and nothing changed, a fourth identical conversation won't fix it either.
2️⃣ Address the pattern, not just the action: Shift the focus: "This has happened multiple times now. Apologies are no longer working."
3️⃣ Ask for a plan, not a promise: Ask: "What concrete steps are you taking so this doesn't happen again?" Look for actionable, verifiable changes, not just warm words.
4️⃣ Set clear boundaries together: Agree on what happens if it occurs again. This isn't a threat; it’s a mutual boundary to protect the relationship's peace.
5️⃣ Examine if you are absorbing the consequences: Sometimes a pattern repeats simply because it never costs them anything. Protecting your partner from their own mistakes enables the behavior.
6️⃣ Seek professional help for heavy burdens: Patterns like dishonesty, infidelity, or addictions cannot be healed by willpower alone.
​✨ Forgiving someone does not mean accepting a cycle that breaks your spirit. True love seeks healing, not continuous endurance.
​What mistake tends to repeat the most in your home? 👇🏼
​💬 Negative patterns break when we start creating entirely new moments together. If you feel it’s time to treat yourselves to a shared experience, comment NEW MEMORIES and we’ll send you all the info 🌴🥂
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If there's one thing I want to keep doing, it's choosing you—not just when everything is going well, but also when life ...
10/15/2026

If there's one thing I want to keep doing, it's choosing you—not just when everything is going well, but also when life brings us challenges. ✨
​I want to keep learning by your side, supporting you, celebrating your joys, and building a relationship together where there is always affection, respect, and a desire to keep sharing life. 💖
​Do you feel that true love shows up in our everyday choices? Let me know in the comments. 👇🏼
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WHAT WOULD YOU DO FOR THE PERSON YOU LOVE? ​When you truly love, protecting is also a form of loving.​For their w...
10/14/2026

WHAT WOULD YOU DO FOR THE PERSON YOU LOVE?

​When you truly love, protecting is also a form of loving.
​For their well-being, to see them smile, and for their peace of mind, you’d do the impossible. Because that person’s life and peace matter just as much as your own. 🥹❤️
​Loving isn't just about being there in the good times; it's about building a safe space where the other person can bloom without fear. ✨
​And you, how do you show that love to your partner?

Let me know in the comments. 👇🏼
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THE 2-2-2 RULE: THE SECRET TO KEEPING THE SPARK ALIVE 🌿❤️✨​Life moves fast, but true connection is nurtured through inte...
10/13/2026

THE 2-2-2 RULE: THE SECRET TO KEEPING THE SPARK ALIVE 🌿❤️✨
​Life moves fast, but true connection is nurtured through intentional moments. Try the simple and powerful 2-2-2 rule to keep the romance alive and your bond growing:
​Every 2 weeks: Go out on a date night, just the two of you. No phones, no work talk—just each other.
​Every 2 months: Take a weekend getaway together to disconnect from the routine and create new memories in a special place.
​Every 2 years: Plan a longer trip or vacation, just the couple, to celebrate your journey and honor your love story.
​Love is not just a feeling; it’s a beautiful choice you make every single day.
​Couples Costa Rica
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10 PILLARS FOR A LOVE THAT LASTS A LIFETIME * Keep faith at the center — When a couple prays together and seeks guidance...
10/12/2026

10 PILLARS FOR A LOVE THAT LASTS A LIFETIME

* Keep faith at the center — When a couple prays together and seeks guidance, they find peace in the storm and a strength that keeps them united.
* Speak from the soul — Communication is more than words; it’s expressing feelings with tenderness, without attacking, and listening with an open heart.
* Honor each other’s boundaries — Respecting how your partner processes life creates a safe haven where both feel loved and protected.
* Choose each other every morning — Love doesn’t live on memories; it lives on daily choices and constant small gestures.
* Forgive to heal, not to remember — True forgiveness releases resentment. It means understanding both make mistakes and choosing healing over past arguments.
* Nurture daily details — An unexpected hug, a mid-day "I miss you," or a loving look keep the spark alive through time.
* Hold each other when life gets heavy — Sharing joy is easy; true love shows up when life is tough and you choose to be each other's anchor.
* Guard loyalty like a treasure — Trust takes years to build and seconds to break. Transparency without secrets brings peace to the home.
* Grow together without drifting apart — We change over time, but true love means admiring each other's evolution while walking hand in hand.
* Be a team against the world — It’s never "you vs. me"; it’s "us vs. the problem." Strong couples overcome anything by moving in the same direction.

: Living the present together… 🛋️❤️✨A tired man comes home to find his wife upset. She looks at him and says: ...
10/12/2026

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Living the present together… 🛋️❤️✨

A tired man comes home to find his wife upset. She looks at him and says: "Today you sleep on the couch!"
He doesn't argue. Without a word, he walks over and lifts her up in his arms.
Startled, she asks: "What are you doing, silly?"
And he answers with words that should echo in every marriage:
"Today WE sleep on the couch. Did you really think I could ever sleep without you? We can talk about why you're upset tomorrow; tonight, I only want to sleep by your side."
That is the true secret of love.
Days will always bring storms—exhaustion, silence, or misunderstandings. But pride is a cold blanket to share. Too many couples let small silences turn into distant nights, until the couch becomes a habit and the bed a lonely place.
Smart love learns a different path: Pride might win an argument, but it always loses a marriage.
Make a simple vow: Never go to sleep angry. Never sleep apart.
Even if your heart aches, let them hold you. In the dark, a hand reaches out, and a silent hug whispers what words couldn't: I am still here, and I still choose you.
Talk tomorrow. Clear the air tomorrow.
But tonight... tonight, don't let go. When you truly love someone, even in anger, you simply don't know how to be far away from them. 💑✨

10/09/2026

your partner ever got caught (or almost caught) being a little too affectionate? 😏

​We'll start: for my husband and me, it was at the beach in Cahuita, Costa Rica. To top it off, we didn't even realize it was a National Park... we thought we were just at a random, secluded beach minding our business, until out of nowhere, a tour bus packed with tourists drove right by. 😂🚌🌴

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