12/27/2022
Swing Through | There are those individuals, in life, who you synergistically connect with. My Uncle Robert is one of them.
One thing about me, I don't take people's investment of time and energy for granted.
When I was 11, I recall my uncle visiting from CA and taking me to a golf driving range at his alma mater, University of MD. At this point he was a scratch golfer (really good non pro). This was my first time ever doing anything golf related, so naturally there were nerves and excitement, but I'm a quick learner and his teaching skills and patience resonated with me. I recall him being very supportive and affirming of me, which I wasn't used to. This always reverbed within me.
MANY years later, I played a round of golf for the 1st time and those who I played with complimented my technique for a beginner. I simply gave my Uncle the credit. (Please note, I've played this much π€πΎ golf through the years, and am still at beginner level π€«)
Although our connection through the years has been more intermittent, I, recently, had the pleasure of staying with my uncle and aunt for a few days at their home in CA. My uncle and I had the opportunity to connect for hours at a time, bonding through transparent communication.
We learned from each other, more about each other, more about ourselves, more about our similarities. I was empowered by his affirming articulation. It was truly an edifying experience, needed on my healing journey. π―
Ironically, my uncle is not one who gets excited about getting in front of the camera, nor does he golf as much as he used to, but he entrusted me to do what I do. πΈ
This was meaningful. These portraits were created in his backyard. He got to witness me in my creative flow and was appreciative of the results, but it was more gratifying for me to have the opportunity to present these as a tribute to him.
π₯ to a man that is Intelligent. Courageous. Intentional. Resilient. Observant. Disciplined. Objective. Dedicated husband/father. Down-to-earth. Protector. Competitor. Leader. Growth mindsetter.