11/10/2026
I’m probably the most extroverted loner you’ll ever meet.
I’m that friend who reaches out, extends invitations, checks in, shows up, supports you, apologizes when I’m wrong, cooks for you, and genuinely makes an effort to be there for the people I care about.
But I’m learning that not everyone values friendship the same way.
Going weeks or months without returning a call, checking in, or simply saying hello, yet calling it friendship doesn’t sit right with me.
I get it. Life gets busy. I’m not that chic who needs constant communication, but I do value consistency. Genuine friendships require intention, effort, and reciprocity.
So, I’ve stopped pouring into relationships where the effort isn’t mutual. I love people and meaningful connections, but I’m also perfectly comfortable enjoying my own company.
And at this stage in my life, I’m only making room for people who genuinely want to be part of it. 🤎