23/06/2024
Knowing is Half the Battle
I consume a lot of European travel content. There’s a lot of good information floating around out there. From old fashioned blogs to an Instagram reel posted a minute ago, you just have to be willing to invest the time it takes to sort the good from the bad. One of the things that I see the most are definitive lists of travel “do’s” and especially “don’ts”. You know the ones I’m talking about. With titles like “The 10 Things You Should Never Do In...”, they are often overly generic and decades out of date. “Don’t wear baseball hats!” might have been good advice in 1997, but unless the entire island of Manhattan is on a European holiday, the endless number of New York Yankees hats here in Europe suggests that this is no longer true. You don’t need a dozen rules hanging over your head before you’ve even bought a ticket. Since I’ve already done the work, let me help you keep it simple.
Reinvent yourself for a trip if that’s your desire, but the clothes you wear at home will work just fine. If you invest in anything new, make it a good pair of walking shoes. While it’s great if you speak the language, it’s not required. Duo Lingo is fun, but I’m not sure how often, “The owl likes to eat pizza.” will come up in conversation. Instead, I suggest that you learn a handful of local words or phrases such as: please, thank you, hello, yes, no, I would like, excuse me, I’m sorry, and the numbers 1-10. In the length of one paragraph, you’re basically packed, and you can study on the plane.
Good manners and common sense will take you far. Just because the please and thank you that you just learned sound different, they’re still the golden words. Use them. You are a guest in the countries that you visit, and your hosts want you to enjoy your trip. Make it easy on them by meeting them with a smile or a pleasant greeting. An easy way to avoid a common (American) problem is to pause for just a moment and take in your surroundings. A quiet café is supposed to be just that, quiet. A beer hall is loud, enjoy yourself! If you’re not sure what the protocol is somewhere, ask. And remember that we all make mistakes while travelling, just try your best to be a good guest.
The Rolling Stones gave excellent travel advice by reminding us all that, “You can’t always get what you want.” Many of us have a deep love for Ranch dressing. Whether on a salad or to dip your French fries, you will not find it in Europe. Don’t worry, you’ll still have plenty of great options for your salads. Try mayonnaise for your frites. European mayo is delicious! Equally elusive may be American portions. You will be satisfied with a “full English” for breakfast in the UK and a German dinner plate can be downright Texan, but generally speaking, don’t expect large portions. While your hosts can’t give you something they don’t have, there are other times where you can politely ask for something that simply isn’t the norm. It’s not traditional to drink a cappuccino after breakfast time in Italy, but it doesn’t mean that a restaurant won’t sell you one. When you get home you can dive into a Costco-sized vat of whatever it is that makes you happy, but until then, your willingness to try new things will only enhance the enjoyment of your trip.
Travel is supposed to be fun. You don’t need an endless supply of experts overwhelming you with rules that just make you want to stay home. Whether helping with research and advice as you plan your trip or on the ground as your personal guide, The Traveler’s Cup is here to help.