01/08/2026
Was reminded this week that it never hurts to ask.
While wandering through a Hakka village in rural Fujian, we were invited into a family’s home for a look around. Their covered courtyard seemed like the perfect place for a gathering.
Before leaving, we mentioned that we were a group of 13 and asked if they’d be willing to cook lunch for us the following day. It took them a couple of minutes to realize we were serious.
The next day, we were treated to a memorable meal of locally grown ingredients in their centuries-old home, complete with house-made rice wine.
Such a privilege, and it never would have happened if we hadn’t simply asked.