29/04/2026
Wonder Women Wednesday. I’m in Bhutan today, but of course I’m celebrating a British born wonder woman, Emma Slade. She has made huge contributions to the lives of children in this small south Asian country through her charity work. But she’s also known as the first western woman to become a Buddhist nun in Bhutan.
In the 1990s, Emma Slade was a successful banker with a degree from Cambridge University. In 1997, on a business trip in Jakarta, she was robbed at gunpoint in her hotel room, an experience which unsurprisingly left her traumatized.
Upon reflection, she realized she had feared dying without making a difference in the world as much as death itself and she began to question her life choices. She embarked on a period of self-exploration during which she began to study meditation and yoga.
In 2003, Emma qualified as a British Wheel of Yoga Instructor. At the same time, she revived a lifelong interest in Buddhism and began to study in earnest.
Her studies led her to Bhutan where she met a monk with whom she felt a spiritual connection. She returned to Bhutan to seek him out and learned that he was a lama (a teacher). When he agreed to be her teacher, she began her long journey towards becoming a nun.
Becoming a Buddhist nun requires years of study and preparation which was especially difficult for Emma because of her personal commitments in the UK. But she persevered.
In 2015, Emma founded Opening Your Heart to Bhutan, an official British charity dedicated to helping Bhutanese children with special needs. Among the charity’s contributions are access to safe medical care, disability aids, and basic amenities to children in the isolated areas of East Bhutan.
Emma has chronicled her story in her book, “Set Free,” from which all proceeds go to her charity.
This wonder woman now lives in Whitstable where she works as a personal coach, inspirational speaker and yoga instructor. She travels regularly to Bhutan, where she is known as Ani Pema Deki, the name chosen for her during her ordination process.
All images of Emma Slade credited to Emma Slade.