29/10/2026
I touched on this a little bit at the weekend and since then I’ve seen a lot of “landfill-core” posts regarding Halloween and Christmas, so as a SEND mum who is always trying to keep the peace, here’s my idea.
As we all craved a 90s summer, why not do the same for autumn/Halloween? And ok, if your childhood was anything like ours in the 90s a real 90s Halloween would be non-existent, BUT what I mean is a gentle, seasonal and not-too-commercialised Halloween.
Over the last few years, Halloween has boomed and in our house, the boys celebrate it all year round 🤣 but I do struggle to keep E regulated in the build up to it because it’s a bit like Christmas and he has AuDHD 🌻 , so he can’t cope with all the emotions that come with it.
This year I made the conscious decision to try and keep it as chilled as we can for him. That doesn’t mean not doing anything, but it does mean we’ve avoided the really big commercial pumpkin patches / Halloween events, we’ve stayed local, we’ve stayed rural and we’ve embraced the season. We’ve not overdone the decorations and those we have got, we used from previous years or made some using natural rescources. He wants to have the same costume as last year (win!) and his brother wants the hand-me-down skeleton.
Tomorrow we’re having a little party based on a Mr Men book with ghost meringues and gingerbread skulls. And on Saturday we’ll join the pumpkin trail in our village which the children all do together 💚
It’s quiet, it’s chilled, it’s low-demand. We’ve still had a few meltdowns, but it definitely feels easier this year. Maybe he’s just a little bit older… we’ll see!
Thanks to March House Farm Rutland Water and Barnsdale Gardens for the inspiration and for keeping it simple ☺️
Have you embraced a 90s Halloween? 🎃