Ernie Sutanto

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*human glory isn't it**looks at what he has**in the world but what has happened**prepares for lunch**in the afterlife*  ...
09/03/2026

*human glory isn't it*
*looks at what he has*
*in the world but what has happened*
*prepares for lunch*
*in the afterlife*

A WOMAN'S CROWN IS NOT ONLY IN VA**NASorry for those who are offended, but indeed this content is made to slap oneself. ...
03/03/2026

A WOMAN'S CROWN IS NOT ONLY IN VA**NA

Sorry for those who are offended, but indeed this content is made to slap oneself. All back to one thing, SELF QUALITY, and this is psychological education for us. The author looks a little kej4m okay, but this is a fact.

When a woman has no direction, standards, boundaries or a sense of integrity in herself, she will so easily depend on her life on others. Good with his brother, his sister, his uncle, his father, even to others that he doesn't know. However, when she begins to build values, purpose, independence, and self-love, a woman is no longer just looking for a complement to life, but she has become a whole figure and is respected by her surroundings and her own partner. Imagine, in some cases, how many women have been victims of domestic violence? Who is the culprit? Yes the man or the closest person himself, even his own child who is no other than the fruit of his heart. Author, there are 10 female characters that must be changed, and this is a disease that must be removed from you.

In social interactions, injustice is often the gateway to injustice.

One thing about Finance: A woman without her own money will accept a man even if she is not appreciated. That's a fact.

About Confidence:. A woman who lacks confidence allows a man to be her source of validation.

Regarding Self-Existence: A lifeless woman is made a temporary entertainment for men. What is existence? Has a beautiful face, but she doesn't know her social class, and is easy with cheap seduction.

Self-Love: A woman should love herself before loving anyone else. And those who have no love for her will accept a man who manipulates her.

Women should also have Interests and Hobbies: A woman who has no hobbies will make a man the center of her life. Yes what is shopping? Shopping? Yes, it's part of the walk. To determine what a man's love looks like, you can test this 3 point.

Women should also have Vision and Purpose: A woman without goals will be made a man as a temporary home. Understand what it means, falling in love stupidly while you are only made a wife of the whole world.

About Happiness: A woman who does not have a job or own income will definitely make a man the source of her happiness. This is relative, but it's better to have your own income. Because the basic nature of women is shopping and dressing up, and this is not cheap. This happiness affects psychology and your appearance in the eyes of others, even other people can judge a woman's happiness by the way you have both.

Women must have Self-Authority: A woman without self-control makes a man the ruler of her life. That's for sure.

Before you decide who your partner is, you must know about Self-Worth: A woman without standards will make a man an outlet.

Tightness of the Heart: A woman without a stand will be made a man an object of control. Do you understand what it means? If you don't understand, check Indosiar soap opera.

Women must also have their own Inner Peace. Otherwise, a woman without peace of mind will make a man the source of her peace.

Women must mature: An immature woman will be shaped in such a way by fate, and most unlucky by men. Example of divorce marriage, divorce marriage with many men just because they never got a suitable one.

In the eyes of religion, women are the most glorified creatures. The absence of principle is not only a psychological problem, but also a dignity problem (izzah).

Women without piety: Will lose their moral compass, so that they are easily swayed by the lusts of others.

Shameless woman: loses her strongest armor, allowing her dignity to be judged physically alone.

Women without religious knowledge: It will be difficult to distinguish between the men who guides to heaven and who plunges her into the valley of humiliation.

This content delves into the deepest side of an entity called women. Described as the most enigmatic figure, there are times he becomes the weakest, but at other times he becomes the bravest, even the most manipulative in case of urgent circumstances.

We see the characters of female warriors who are able to go beyond limits, such as the spirit of Omnipotence, a woman who is not only silent, but becomes a warrior who is capable of subduing many men for the sake of her principles and homeland. This is a case study of how a woman acts according to the circumstances and environment that shape her. He can be a tough protector or a cold avenger, depending on the quality of values he holds.

Girl, don't allow yourselves to be an object. Be the subject of your own life. Love yourself and the process.

"The busier you are trying to change your husband... the more you will be stressed. ”Why?Because you're trying to contro...
02/03/2026

"The busier you are trying to change your husband... the more you will be stressed. ”

Why?

Because you're trying to control something that's out of your control.

We often think:
"If he changes, I'll be calm. ”
"If he was more attentive, I would be happy. ”
"If he stops being like this, the household will be peaceful. ”

Even though the key is not in him.
But in the way we approach it.

Allah said:

"Verily Allah will not change the condition of a people until they change their own condition. ”
(QS. Ar-Ra’d: 11)

Pay attention...
Allah tells us to fix ourselves, not force others to change.

The more u demand ,
the more disappointed you are.

The more you manage,
the more you get tired.

The more you hope he meets your expectation,
the more you stress.

Because people change not because of pressure.
But because of awareness.

The Messenger of Allah صلى الله عليه وسلم also said:

“The most perfect believer in his faith is the best of his morals, and the best of you is the best to his wife. ”
(HR. Tirmidzi)

What is your duty?
Be the best version of you.
Not the police 4 ur husband.

If he hasn't changed, you still can:
• Manage your emotions.
• Strengthen your mental.
• Increase the value of yourself.
• Build your independence.

Sometimes when the wife stops talkative and starts to focus on upgrading herself,
Husband just started thinking.

Because energies are shifting.

Remember this very well...

You can't force someone to grow up.
But you can choose not to drown in her immature maturity.

Stop controlling.
Start to get a hold of myself.

If you want a more peaceful marriage,
start within yourself first.

And if you want to slowly build strong mental strength, strong faith, strong financial,
in order not to be stressed because of over dependent emotionally and economically...

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Because a strong woman,
not busy changing others.
She's busy leveling herself up.

–––
Erni Maryam
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28/02/2026

The economy is getting harder, food prices are getting more expensive, Is there a solution? 🤔

26/02/2026

*"Apa pun kesulitan yang kamu hadapi, jangan pernah lepas iman kepada Allah, ucapkan Alhamdulillah. Allah ada di sisi orang beriman*

24/02/2026

*Once you fall in love, go straight to your soulmate, O Allah, but if your soulmate is destined to die, allow me to make my parents and family happy first, O Lord..*
*Sekali jatuh cinta langsung ke jodohnya saja ya Allah tapi kalau jodohnya ajal, ijinkan dulu aku untuk bahagiakan orang tua dan keluargaku yaa Rabb..*

23/02/2026

Life motivation, Self-reminder

23/02/2026

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