31/12/2025
I write frequently about friends in India, appreciating the hosts and communities with whom I work, but for this end of year post I want to say a massive thank you to my GUESTS.
Although we wait eagerly for feedback from guests, and wallow delightedly in it when it comes, in many ways it is feedback from hosts about guests that matters more to me - as it should frankly. Tourism should do no harm, and the first and most basic part of that is respect for the people whose country we are visiting.
Well, my colleagues tell me VERY nice things.
It’s not just ‘they were lovely and polite and gave a good tip’ - but ‘they were especially interested in this’, and ‘they loved throwing themselves into that’, and ‘they sat and talked to my mother and father in law with such kindness and curiosity’ or ‘they compared something we do here to something you do there and it brought everyone closer’.
It’s immensely hard to feel positive about the state of the world at the moment, and I’m rarely comfortable in the milieu of the actual industry of tourism, but re-reading the joyful messages from guests and hosts about their shared pleasure in one another’s company makes me glow.
Thank you all: for trying to learn a bit of Hindi (or in the case of 79 year old J right now, Nepali); for bearing with the bumps that come with truly immersive travel, for taking the time to travel slowly and becoming aware of how slowly things have to happen for most people in India, for recognising that travel is a privilege and not a right, and being so endearingly grateful for it.
I haven’t even started on the New Year’s Eve plonk yet, and know this is verging on the purple, and too too soppy, but also, maybe we all need a bit of over the top love and gush.
Thank you.