
18/12/2024
One of the interesting things about this time of year is often surprising people get in touch, frequently after decades of silence. You receive a Christmas card or an email saying Hello—it’s been years but here I am again. How are you? Merry Christmas!
The mind has to shift into neutral for a few seconds to process this name, then dredge up their face, and finally the memories of this person who left your solar system long ago. But now, like Halley’s Comet, their orbit has for some reason brought them back for a glimpse before they’re off again.
I like when this happens. It reminds me I’ve had more than one life, one set of friends, one set of intimates, ex-students, etcetera. It reminds me life really is made up of chapters and what we inhabit right now is just one and not our whole story.