The Life of a Single Mum

09/05/2025

Good morning beautiful girls...
Who is a woman's of valour?
She is often described as someone who embodies:
1. strength,
2. dignity, and
3. wisdom.
She is recognized for her:
1. integrity,
2. compassion, and
3. ability to care for her family and community effectively.
This woman is portrayed as industrious and resourceful, often balancing multiple roles with grace and capability.
Her virtuous character and moral principles set her apart, making her a respected and honored figure among those who know her.

This is my sincere prayer for each one of us, may we be found amongst the mighty women of valour..
We are not our limitations, we are not our mistake, we are not our fate... We are women crowned with grace🥰

27/03/2025

18/03/2025

Nothing can put us down

16/03/2025

CLASS TIME!
Dear single lady, in life you'll come across two men. The one, you'll love deeply and affectionately but he will like you a lot but never really be on the same love level you are at. It's just not there.

The other, you will like him the way the 1st one likes you but He will love you the way you love the 1st one; affectionately and whole heartedly. He's great company but your heart is not fully there.

If you have to marry, never marry the 1st man if you want a loving, lasting marriage with a man you can trust and depend on.

Women learn to love and can grow into it. With men, it's either there or not. They can try but it's very hard for them, resulting to them always going out there to try and fill the gap. They might hate cheating on you but when they meet someone and 'fall' in love, you'll weep.

MARRY THE MAN WHO AFFECTIONATELY LOVES YOU and dedicate yourself to loving them! You'll be happy. Don't say I didn't warn you 🚶‍♀️🚶‍♀️🚶‍♀️.

Good morning and happy weekend.

28/12/2024

To every single mother out there...
Today is a new day. Don't let your history interfere with your destiny! Let today be the day you stop being a victim of your circumstances and start taking actions towards the life you want. You have the power and the time to shape your life. Break free from the poisonous victim mentality and embrace the truth of your greatness. You were not meant for a mundane or mediocre life.... Wishing you a weekend full of love and laughter....

24/10/2024

Arise ooh queen 👑 and fix your own crown because no one will.

I Peter 5:7 NKJV
[7] casting all your care upon Him, for He cares for you.

23/10/2024

Arise mum, fix your eyes on the Lord, he shall never leave you, nor forsake you.

20/09/2024

The main reason why you've not managed to heal from that heartbreak, that marriage separation, that divorce, that painful loss regardless of the number of years you've been "alone", regardless of the position you hold in the society is because you've never allowed yourself to be alone!

Alone to reflect on your own shortcomings, alone to align and realign your life, alone to reflect on the role you played in that supposedly loss, break up etc, alone to be able to forgive yourself so you can forgive your seemingly offenders!

Let me explain it further, hurting people are always afraid of being alone, hurting people think they've overcome what hurt them, hurting souls think and believe time is a healer - this statement is relative. Hurting people will always bleed on those who didn't cut them.

I'm a believer of people not wasting their pain and most people have found a major role in their shortcomings, they look okay but in reality are empty reasons why they politely hurt others.

WAY FORWARD/REMEDY/MITIGATION.
1. Awareness - yes I'm aware this happened
2. Acknowledgment - I indeed acknowledge my role in it
3. Acceptance - I accept meaning I'm ready for the consequences
4. Feeling the pain - yes and true I feel the pain
5. Grieving - I'll cry, allow myself to feel what must be felt
6. Forgiveness - I'm willing to forgive myself for making those mistakes without blaming anyone and I'm also will to forgive those who hurt me.
7. Moving forward - and yes, life doesn't stop. Falling is ok, staying on the ground isn't ok. I'll dust myself and move and allow myself to leave my yesterdays where it belongs

After exercising above, you'll start manifesting
1. increased self-awareness
2. improved relationships
3. greater resilience, and
4. improved physical and mental health.

NB: Lone moments are medicinal, being alone is healthy. Make a choice today.

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