Love&Leisure Homestay Penang【爱休闲槟城民宿】

Love&Leisure Homestay Penang【爱休闲槟城民宿】 Lovely homestay, a detach house in a small fishing village, Gertak Sanggul Penang. The homestay consi ********
**About Me**
My name is Ooi. Toiletries
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I am born and grown in a countryside fishing village called Gertak Sanggul. We are a fisherman family. We love to meet new people and make friends. We likes to travel with our family around the world to know about other country's culture. We would like to give people who is busy and always in town area to experience the slow pace and life that stay in a countryside. We stay within walking distance

from the homestay. So, we are ready to serve you, offers help and check you in 24/7. You may let me know if you need my help to suggest and workout a visiting plan with you. Welcome to visit and stay in this Fishing Village Homestay@Gertak Sanggul.

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**About My Village**
This fishing village is located at the south west of the beautiful Penang Island called Gertak Sanggul. The chinese name of the village is "pretty lake" which bring the meaning of a beautiful countryside. The village is even not known by some of the Penangites as it is situated at the countryside of Penang island. Formerly, the villagers are mainly Chinese family. As time goes, there are Chinese, Malay and Indian family migrated to this village. So, at this small village, you will see the harmony of different races of people with different culture stay in the same village. Most of the local villagers here works as fisherman and farmer (durian farm) due to the surrounding topography. This village is surrounded by the mountain and by the sea. This is a very peaceful fishing village. People that staying in this village is friendly and know each other well as this is just a small village. You tell a name of the villager here and people can tell who he/she is. Most of the house is mainly made of wood. You will able to feel and see a kampung house (village house) instead of tall building in the town area. Hence, you will definitely experience the other side beauty of Penang.

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**Surrounding of the village**
About 5 min drive away from Gertak Sanggul, there is a popular picnic spot for local people called Tanjung Asam. It may not a popular tourist spot but during weekend, many local people likes to go there to picnic and swimming with kids. At Gertak Sanggul, there are two popular chinese eatery spot, Tua Pek Khong and Gertak Sanggul FIshing Seafood. Both serve rice, noodles and fresh seafood. Everything in Gertak Sanggul village is within walking distance. At Teluk Kumbar (10min drive from Gertak Sanggul), there is a famous Thai Food (Khuntai), popular chinese seafood restaurant, Hai Boey Seafood, Hao You seafood, Ai Ding Yuan Seafood and popular Malay stall serving Mee Udang (Prawn noodles). There are many mamak stall (small restaurant serve by local) that offers variety of popular local delicacy like Fried rice, Roti Canai (popular bread made by Mamak in Penang), Mee Goreng (Fried noodles) and etc. Another popular spot near to Gertak Sanggul called Balik Pulau is just 15 min drive away. Along the way to Balik Pulau, there is a place called Little Genting. Little Genting is a hill situated between the road from Teluk Kumbar to Balik Pulau. In Little Genting, you can get to see a beautiful scenery for whole Balik Pulau. At the same time, there is a restaurant up there so you can enjoy the scene while having your meal there. You can drive a normal car up to there. However, it is recommended to have experience in driving as the road is small and a little steep. At Balik Pulau, there are a few popular tourism spot. You may visit Goat farm, Audi Dream farm, Nutmeg factory, Bao Sheng Durian Farm and etc. There has famous food in Penang like Laksa and Pasembur. If you headed to north, about 25 min drive, you may visit Snake Temple located in Bayan Baru and you may also visit War Museum and popular Big foot temple that located in Batu Maung Area. The nearest big shopping mall from our village will be Queensbay Mall, BJ Complex, Sunshine Square and Giant. The journey to these shopping mall will be roughly 30 minutes. If you would like to buy some daily use stuff, you may get it from small grocery shop in the village or minimarket at Teluk Kumbar which is just 5 min drive from Gertak Sanggul. There is minimarket like CTH, Ah Hup and 7-eleven.

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**Village's Activities**
If you would like to experience a fisherman life, we can arrange a short boat trip for you to experience how to fish with net. Please arrange with me before booking if you would like to experience that as the time to go to the sea will be different with season and weather. Most of the villagers here work as fisherman, you can get fresh seafood during evening time when fisherman coming back from the sea. The beach is just a 100m walking distance away from the homestay. There is season when the sea is available with Siput (clam), a type of seafood with shell. During the season, many local people will go to the sea to catch the clam. You may experience catching the clam by the seaside during the season. Please follow my page as i will update here when it is the season to catch the clam. During evening, you may stroll along the road near the village to experience the villagers life. You will see many villagers stroll around with their kids, whether through walking, cycling or ride motorbike slowly. You may picnic and sit by the beach to enjoy the breeze and the peacefulness in the village. During durian season, this village do produce many type of durian, rambutan and etc. You can buy from the local people here with reasonable price. Lunch/dinner with fresh seafood is served by the local Tua Phek Kong seafood stall. There is one more option to enjoy seafod dinner at fishing village seafood centre. At the sametime, you may have your steamboat/bbq at the homestay also. If you wish to stay in the house and relax, you can enjoy reading the books or doing some bakery. We do have some books in the house and also full equip bakery equipment available. Few local small temple are located in this fishing village. They are maintained by the local villagers here. The temple is a small temple that exist in rural area since the start of the village and it is a believe of local chinese people in the village. One of the popular fishing spot near Gertak Sanggul is near the hill side of the village. Many people that likes to fishing ride motorbikes hike up to the hill near the end of the village to fishing. There is also a man made fishing pond owned by the villagers. There is a hiking route from this village to Pulau Betong. If you like hiking, you can try out this hiking route. This will take about 3-4 hours to reach Pulau Betong. You will need to take public transport to back to Gertak Sanggul if you don't plan to hike back to Gertak Sanggul.

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**House Rule**
1. Please take off your shoes when enter the homestay.
2. Smoking is not allowed in house. If you really want to smoke, please smoke outside the house
3. No pets is allowed in the house
4. Please switch off all electrical appliances (Air conditioner, Light, Fan) when not in use
5. Please clean the cooking utensils, cooking appliances, cup, plates, fork and spoon after use. Dry up the items and put back to the original place.
6. No consumption of food inside the room
7. Please keep the noise in minimum level after 10pm
8. Please close the window and lock the door when you are leaving the house.
9. Please help to put back everything that you use to its original place and please do not take away anything from the house as as all the items are prepared as a courtesy to be use by all the guest at all times.
10.Bear with any damage to the house furniture and equipment

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**Check-In/Check-Out time**
Check-in : 3pm
Check-out: 12pm

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**Amenities**
1. 4 Air conditioner room with 5 queen size bed and fan available
2. 3 Bath room with water heater and one of bathroom with bathtub
3. 49" FULL-HD LED TV with Astro Njoi channel
4. Laptop friendly workspace
5. Free use of washing machine
6. Fridge, Oven, Air fryer, Cooking hood & hob, Microwave, Kettle, Rice cooker, Egg mixer, Bread maker
9. BBQ pit and BBQ stick
10. Iron stand and iron
12. Hair dryer
13. Free covered parking
14. Board games, Books, Mini mahjong
15. SimpleFoot Massager (Strictly for foot used only and please wear sock for hygiene purpose

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**Direction to the village**
The journey from Penang international airport to Gertak Sanggul is about 20 min drive(10km). To come Gertak Sanggul from Airport, you will need to head to south, pass through Bayan Lepas and Teluk Kumbar. Then take the left turn after a famous Lexis Suites Hotel and Hao You Seafood and you are heading towards Gertak Sanggul. It is just 10min more greenery route from Lexis Suites to Gertak Sanggul. If you are taking public transport, you will need to take a rapid bus with no. 308. The routemap of the rapid bus is at the link below (select 308 under Penang Island):
http://www.rapidpg.com.my/journey-planner/route-maps/
However, it is recommended for you to have own transport because bus is only available in the interval of 1 hours. If you are coming from Georgetown with car, the journey is about 45mins to 1 hour. I would recommend you to explore the south of Penang if you stay at my homestay. My family members are working at the FTZ in Bayan Lepas/Batu Maung area. If during weekday, they may give you free ride to go to somewhere that may have more public transport. However, if you need that, please contact me before booking so that we can make an arrangement and see if the location suit you. I can provide you free airport transfer if you stay more than 3 days here. Else, we can arrange airport transfer to you at a small fees also.

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**Word from us**
We welcome you to stay in our homestay. It is a great place if you would like to wind down, relax and experience the culture in a countryside and fishing village. We hope to see you soon :)

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本以为是关节炎,结果竟然……“医生,我是来寻求第二意见的。我真的还无法接受他们说我得了肺癌这件事。”哈丝娜女士的脸上满是疲惫,声音低沉,双眼肿胀。她才30岁,年纪轻轻,原本应该正享受着与丈夫和两个年幼孩子的幸福生活。但那天,她走进我的诊所,...
29/07/2025

本以为是关节炎,结果竟然……

“医生,我是来寻求第二意见的。我真的还无法接受他们说我得了肺癌这件事。”

哈丝娜女士的脸上满是疲惫,声音低沉,双眼肿胀。她才30岁,年纪轻轻,原本应该正享受着与丈夫和两个年幼孩子的幸福生活。

但那天,她走进我的诊所,带着一丝希望。

起初以为只是关节炎

“一开始只是关节痛,手肘、手腕、膝盖。我还以为是普通的关节炎呢,医生。”

我点点头。

“但后来手指尖变得奇怪,鼓鼓圆圆的,好像肿起来了。”

我请她伸出双手让我看看。

杵状指(finger clubbing)。

这不是关节炎的征兆,而是一种严重问题的信号——通常与肺部或心脏的慢性疾病有关。

CT 扫描与活检报告(来自另一家医院)

哈丝娜告诉我,她已经在另一家医院做过了完整的CT扫描和支气管镜检查。

她递给我一份报告文件。

我轻轻打开,慢慢阅读:
• 双肺都有结节
• 纵隔淋巴结肿大
• 活检结果:鳞状细胞肺癌(第四期)

我沉默了一会儿。这是个沉重的诊断。

震惊与疑问

“可是医生,我根本不抽烟啊……怎么会得这种病?”

我温和地看着她,轻声问:

“你家里有人抽烟吗?”

她缓缓点头。

“是的……我爸爸。从我小时候开始就抽。”

深沉的哀伤

她的丈夫一直坐在旁边,这时紧紧握住妻子的手,哽咽着开口:“我们真的很震惊。哈丝娜一向很健康、饮食也规律,家族也没有癌症史。可现在……竟然是第四期肺癌。”

哈丝娜低下头,眼泪不断滑落。

“我现在还是觉得像做梦一样,医生……每晚看着孩子们睡觉,我的心都揪着。我害怕我等不到他们长大。”

治疗选择

哈丝娜在之前的医院被建议了三种治疗方案:
1. 化疗 – 控制癌细胞扩散
2. 免疫疗法 – 如果身体条件允许,可激活免疫系统对抗癌症
3. 临床试验 – 属于新型疗法,虽仍在研究阶段,但潜力可观

我逐一向她详细解释每一种疗法,让她能基于知识而非恐惧来做决定。

被忽视的被动吸烟危害

“哈丝娜女士,我知道这不是你的错。但有时,长期暴露在二手烟环境中……可能是隐藏的致病因素。”

她轻轻点头。

“我小时候和爸爸一起睡到小学六年级……那时候他每天在屋里抽烟,连房间里也抽。”

我沉默了一会儿。

这,就是二手烟的代价——它不只伤害吸烟者本身,更殃及他们最爱的亲人。

刻骨的教训

哈丝娜的病例提醒我:肺癌并不只是“抽烟者”的疾病。

它也会降临在那些从不吸烟、但却不得不每天呼吸他人烟雾的无辜人身上——孩子、妻子、家人……

值得铭记的教训:
1. 关节疼痛伴随手指异常肿胀并不寻常,若持续不愈,应立即求诊。
2. 肺癌可以发生在年轻女性、非吸烟者身上。
3. 第二意见是帮助病人理性处理坏消息、做出更安心决定的重要环节。
4. 被动吸烟是沉默的杀手,其影响可持续多年,危害深远。
5. 请戒烟 ——不仅是为自己,更是为了你最爱的人。

一位母亲无声的抗争

如今,哈丝娜仍在考虑下一步治疗方向。但我从她的眼中看到希望——那是一个母亲不肯放弃的光芒。

如果你或你的亲人正经历无法解释的关节痛、呼吸困难、或手指异常肿胀,请不要等,尽早检查。

Disangka Sakit Sendi Kerana Arthritis… Rupanya…

“Doktor, saya datang nak minta second opinion. Saya masih belum boleh terima bila mereka kata saya ada kanser paru-paru.”

Wajah Puan Hasnah kelihatan letih. Suaranya perlahan, matanya sembab. Dia baru berusia 30 tahun. Masih muda, dan sepatutnya sedang menikmati kehidupan dengan suami dan dua orang anak kecilnya.

Tetapi hari itu, dia datang ke klinik saya untuk mencari harapan.



Awalnya Disangka Arthritis

“Mula-mula saya cuma rasa sendi sakit. Siku, pergelangan tangan, lutut. Ingatkan arthritis biasa, doktor.”

Saya angguk.

“Tapi lama-lama hujung jari jadi pelik, macam membulat dan membengkak.”

Saya minta dia tunjukkan tangannya.

Finger clubbing. (Gambar)
Itu bukan tanda arthritis. Itu tanda bahawa ada sesuatu yang serius sedang berlaku — selalunya pada paru-paru.



CT Scan & Biopsi — Di Hospital Lain

Dia ceritakan segalanya: CT scan dan bronkoskopi sudah pun dilakukan di hospital lain.
Lalu dia keluarkan sekeping fail dan menyerahkannya kepada saya.

Saya buka perlahan dan mula membaca.
• Ketulan pada paru-paru kanan dan kiri
• Pembesaran kelenjar mediastinum
• Biopsi: Squamous Cell Lung Carcinoma, Stage 4

Saya terdiam seketika. Satu diagnosis yang berat.



Kecewa dan Bingung

“Saya tak merokok pun, doktor… macam mana boleh kena penyakit ni?”

Saya pandang dia, kemudian bertanya perlahan:

“Ayah awak merokok?”

Dia angguk perlahan.

“Ya… dari saya kecil lagi.”



Kesedihan Yang Mendalam

Suaminya yang duduk di sebelah menggenggam tangan isterinya, kemudian bersuara dengan nada tersekat:

“Kami terkejut. Hasnah aktif, makan sihat, tak ada sejarah keluarga. Tapi sekarang… kami diberitahu ini kanser tahap 4.”

Puan Hasnah menunduk, air mata mula mengalir.

“Saya masih rasa macam mimpi, doktor… Bila tengok anak saya tidur malam-malam, hati saya sebak. Saya takut tak sempat tengok mereka membesar.”



Pilihan Rawatan

Puan Hasnah telah ditawarkan tiga pilihan rawatan oleh hospital sebelum ini:
1. Kemoterapi – untuk hentikan pertumbuhan sel kanser
2. Imunoterapi – jika tubuhnya sesuai, ini bantu sistem imun lawan kanser
3. Clinical trial – rawatan baru yang masih dalam kajian, tapi berpotensi tinggi

Saya jelaskan satu persatu semula, supaya dia benar-benar faham dan boleh buat keputusan berdasarkan ilmu — bukan takut.



Kesan Merokok Pasif

“Puan Hasnah, saya tahu ini bukan salah awak. Tapi kadangkala, pendedahan kepada asap rokok pasif dalam jangka masa lama… boleh jadi punca.”

Dia angguk perlahan.

“Saya duduk serumah dengan ayah sampai darjah enam, doktor… Masa tu ayah kuat merokok. Dalam bilik pun merokok…”

Saya diam sejenak.
Beginilah kesannya. Bukan pada perokok sahaja. Tapi pada orang yang mereka sayang.



Pengajaran Yang Merobek Jiwa

Kes Puan Hasnah mengingatkan saya bahawa kanser paru-paru bukan hanya penyakit perokok. Ia juga menghukum mereka yang tak bersalah — anak-anak, isteri, cucu — yang terpaksa hidup dalam asap yang mereka tak minta.



Pengajaran:
1. Sakit sendi dan finger clubbing bukan gejala biasa. Jika anda alami simptom pelik dan tak sembuh, jumpa pakar segera.
2. Kanser paru-paru boleh menyerang orang muda, wanita, dan bukan perokok.
3. Second opinion boleh membantu pesakit buat keputusan dengan lebih yakin dan tenang.
4. Asap rokok pasif adalah pembunuh senyap. Jangan abaikan kesannya pada anak dan keluarga anda.
5. Berhentilah merokok — bukan hanya untuk diri sendiri, tetapi demi kesihatan ahli keluarga yang anda sayangi.



Penutup

Puan Hasnah kini sedang mempertimbangkan rawatan. Dia belum putus harapan. Dalam setiap kunjungan ke klinik, saya lihat matanya masih punya cahaya — cahaya seorang ibu yang belum mahu menyerah.

Jika anda alami simptom seperti batuk berpanjangan, sesak nafas, sakit sendi yang tak sembuh, atau jari membengkak — jangan tunggu. Dapatkan pemeriksaan awal.

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Thought It Was Just Arthritis… But It Was Something Far More Serious

“Doctor, I’m here for a second opinion. I’m just… not ready to accept what the other hospital told me.”

That was how my first meeting with Puan Hasnah, a 30-year-old woman, began. She looked exhausted. Her voice was soft, and her eyes puffy from crying. She was young — too young — and should have been enjoying life with her husband and two little children.

But that day, she came to my clinic searching for hope.



It Started Like Joint Pain

“It started with joint pain — my wrists, knees, elbows. I thought it was arthritis,” she said.

I nodded.

“But then my fingers started to look odd… swollen at the tips.”

She showed me her hands.

Clubbing fingers.
That wasn’t arthritis. It was a red flag — often linked to chronic lung or heart disease.



CT Scan & Biopsy – Already Done Elsewhere

Hasnah had already undergone a full CT scan and bronchoscopy at another hospital.
She handed me a file with the reports.

I opened it carefully and started reading.
• Nodules in both lungs
• Enlarged mediastinal lymph nodes
• Biopsy result: Squamous Cell Lung Carcinoma, Stage 4

I took a deep breath. It was a heavy diagnosis.



Confusion and Shock

“But I don’t even smoke, doctor… how could I get lung cancer?”

I looked at her gently, and asked:

“Did anyone in your family smoke?”

She nodded slowly.

“Yes… my dad. Since I was a child.”



A Silent Sadness

Her husband, who had been quietly sitting beside her, finally spoke up, his voice trembling:

“We’re in shock. Hasnah eats well, lives healthily. No family history. And now… this. Stage 4 cancer.”

Hasnah lowered her head, tears streaming down her cheeks.

“Doctor… I still feel like I’m dreaming. Every night when I watch my kids sleep, my heart aches. I’m scared I won’t be there to see them grow up.”



Treatment Options

She had been offered three treatment options by the other hospital:
1. Chemotherapy – to control cancer spread
2. Immunotherapy – to help her immune system fight the cancer
3. Clinical trial – newer experimental treatments with promising results

I re-explained each option clearly, so she could understand — not out of fear, but with knowledge.



The Hidden Danger of Passive Smoking

“Puan Hasnah,” I said gently, “this is not your fault. But long-term exposure to secondhand smoke… can sometimes be a hidden cause.”

She nodded.

“I used to sleep next to my father until I was 12. He smoked a lot… even in the bedroom.”

I paused for a moment.
This is what secondhand smoke can do. It doesn’t just harm the smoker — it hurts the people they love the most.



Lessons to Remember

Hasnah’s case reminds me that lung cancer doesn’t just happen to smokers.
It also happens to the ones who breathe in their smoke — silently, unknowingly.



Key Takeaways:
1. Unusual joint pain and clubbed fingers are not “normal.” Don’t ignore symptoms that don’t improve.
2. Lung cancer can affect young women, even non-smokers.
3. A second opinion helps patients process difficult news and make calm, informed decisions.
4. Secondhand smoke is a silent killer. Children and loved ones suffer long after the smoke clears.
5. Quit smoking — not just for yourself, but for the people you love.



A Mother’s Silent Battle

Hasnah is still deciding on her next steps. But I saw strength in her eyes — the strength of a mother who refuses to give up.

If you or someone you love is experiencing unexplained joint pain, shortness of breath, or clubbed fingers — please don’t delay. Get checked.

🔗 Book your appointment at our lung clinic at Sunway Medical Centre Velocity, Cheras:
👉 https://encoremed.io/smcv /154





 #黄梨二三事  #我什么时候能有手机有次去参加同学的生日派对,黄梨看到其中一个同学有手机。他问我:我什么时候能有自己的手机?我没有立刻回答他,而是问:你想用手机来做什么呢?黄梨想了想说:玩游戏!我点点头:对呢!手机里的游戏很吸引人。但是你...
31/12/2024

#黄梨二三事

#我什么时候能有手机

有次去参加同学的生日派对,黄梨看到其中一个同学有手机。

他问我:我什么时候能有自己的手机?

我没有立刻回答他,而是问:你想用手机来做什么呢?

黄梨想了想说:玩游戏!

我点点头:对呢!手机里的游戏很吸引人。但是你知道手机真正的用途吗?

黄梨说:打电话!

我说:是的。但是除了打电话,现在的手机还有很多用途。我们可以用手机联系亲友、拍照、上网、玩游戏、工作、付款、转账、储存资料。。。但是拥有手机也是有风险的。
因为手机是很吸引人的,一旦失去自制力,就会一直想要玩手机游戏,一不玩就全身不舒服,什么事也做不了,这就是上瘾。你这个年龄的头脑还不够能力去管理自己的欲望,很容易上瘾。
再来手机可以上网,网上有很多讯息,有好有坏。你搜索资讯的时候,不知道这些资料是谁写的?他为什么写?他依据什么来写?他有什么目的?你现在的知识还不够让你去分辨真假,还不知道怎样找到这些信息,那么你很可能就会被他误导或欺骗。

黄梨说:嗯,写这些的人可能就是一个Random guy。
(一般没有可靠来源的资料作者和传播者我们都统称Random guy)

我点点头:嗯。你会拥有自己的手机的,要等你满足三个条件。第一,你成年了,你知道几岁算成年吗?

黄梨说:可以投票的时候。

我说:对,18岁。第二,你能够阅读中文和英文,能够读出所有文字,理解所有文字要表达的信息。

黄梨:嗯,我会的中文字还不够多。

我认同:是的。最后,你要在平时生活里培养出好的习惯,我要观察到你已经能够好好安排自己的时间,可以主动自觉地整理好自己的物品,可以管控自己的行为和欲望。满足这三个条件,你就可以拥有自己的手机。你同意吗?

黄梨点点头。

我再补充:最后,如果你拥有了手机之后,不能克制自己上瘾了,那么我就需要让你远离使你上瘾的东西,到时我可能会没收你的手机哦。

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手机的诱惑很大。

尤其是看到自己家里的大人手机不离手,小孩也会被影响,认为手机上的东西一定是很吸引人的。

我跟黄梨爸没有玩手游的习惯。一家人在一起的时候也很少碰手机,工作时间使用手机,黄梨也很清楚我们是在工作。

我手机安装了Minecraft和一个Motorcycle 的游戏,有时黄梨要求玩个15-20分钟我都会同意;有时在晚上睡前会跟他一起看两三个好笑的视频,跟他分享新闻,适当地满足黄梨对手机的欲望,也作为一个正确使用手机的榜样。

我觉得电子时代,没有人能摒弃手机。

我不需要完全隔绝,只是需要让孩子了解,适当的时间适当的使用,手机带来的就是益处,否则也是毁掉自己的一个武器。

我第一次體會到,跟我爸以外的男人伸手要錢有多窘迫之後,就下定決心要成為一個能獨立把生活過好的人。年輕時,我曾跟某任男友談遠距離戀愛,偶爾會約在第三地旅行見面。有一年,他買了到曼谷的機票送給我當生日禮物。我這個人有個毛病,就是不喜歡欠人,所以...
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我第一次體會到,跟我爸以外的男人伸手要錢有多窘迫之後,就下定決心要成為一個能獨立把生活過好的人。

年輕時,我曾跟某任男友談遠距離戀愛,偶爾會約在第三地旅行見面。有一年,他買了到曼谷的機票送給我當生日禮物。我這個人有個毛病,就是不喜歡欠人,所以那趟旅行的飯店錢是我出的。我記得飯店的費用比機票稍便宜一點,於是提議由我負責當地的旅費。

出發前,我在機場換了泰銖,對方提議由他保管現金,理由是我的廢包太小,萬一弄丟就麻煩了。我樂得輕鬆,就把現金交給他,卻沒想到這讓我學到了一課。

旅程中,我想喝杯飲料,他卻說:「喝那幹嘛?浪費錢!」堅持不把錢給我。十幾年前的路邊攤泰奶也就20泰銖左右而已。逛街時,我挑了幾套曼谷每次去都會買的內衣褲,因為比台灣便宜太多了。挑完後,我走向他想拿錢結帳,他卻露出一臉「你又在浪費錢」的表情,外加碎唸五十句。

欸,不是,那幾萬泰銖是我換的欸。於是就發火把錢拿回來自己保管了。

而這個人,偏偏是我所有交往過的人中,最喜歡說「不想工作就辭職,我養你」的那個人。如果當時我真的相信了這句「我養你」,我都不敢想像,那種手心向上的生活會有多窘困。

我很慶幸發生這件事情的時候我還很年輕,這麼早就經歷這件事情,讓我很早就知道人一定要有自己的底氣。

每個人的人生都有不同的生活方式,對我來說,「有選擇」才是真正的自由。而要擁有選擇,前提是自己得有能力站穩,靠自己過好生活,不要把選擇交到別人手中。

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【網絡實境】

有位年輕人剛畢業返家,應父親要求陪同前往銀行辦事繳費,不料群眾不少、等待超過一個小時,加上老父又要轉帳,小伙子忍不住就問他。

「為什麼不啟動您手機的網路銀行?」

父親回問兒子:
「給我理由、為什麼要這麼做?」

兒子答:
因爲有網路銀行,你就不必走15分鐘後、還站在這裡排隊浪費一個小時,只為了跨行轉帳。
你可以在家隨時用手機線上購物,一切都很容易操作,省時省力又方便快速。

年輕人很開心的想引導老父親卸下心防、進入網絡的新世界。

父問:
如果這樣做,以後我再也不必出門辦事?買東西用網路勾選貨到付款⋯以後整天就窩在家裡搞定ㄧ切日常?

兒子回:
是的,是的!現在甚至Uber 隨點隨到,在家門口付費交貨。

父親接下來的回答,讓兒子感到啞口無言!

父對子說:
今天走進這家銀行,我遇到四個熟朋好友,也和銀行工作人員聊了一會兒。

你知道我經常一個人很孤單。這樣的日常生活方式才是我需要的,我喜歡親自到銀行走這一趟。

人老了有足夠的時間,散步健身、重要的是與真實的人噓寒問暖、有實際的接觸。

兩年前我生場大病,經常光顧的水果攤老闆還專程來探望,他帶來水果坐在我的床邊聊天。

幾天前你媽在晨運走路時,突然摔倒了,雜貨店的人看到、馬上開車送你媽回家,因為大家都是熟悉的老鄰居。

如果未來一切都「上網」解決,會有這種「實際與人接觸」的交情嗎?

為什麼我要讓一切東西都直接送到家,然後勉強自己努力學習和「電腦」互動呢?

我只喜歡和人打交道,而不是和網絡上的 「賣家」或「機器」 交朋友。

兒子坦然接受父親的選擇,因為那是他的人生。

「科技」 日新月異早已改變人類的生活,如今Al網路世界的發展,更突破人類過去的想像;在真實和虛擬的網絡世界之中,微小的人啊,只能更多倚靠神,以真理為準則,求聖靈引導幫助我們以智慧活出美好生命 。

約1:4
生命在他裡面,這生命就是人的光。

John 1:4
In him was life; and the life was the light of men.

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📍Kimberley Street Food 汕头街夜市
乔治城区内知名夜市,规模较小,以华人美食街头小吃闻名,有榴莲摊贩
⏰5-11pm每天
推荐天皇卤味、云吞面、Char Kway Teow

📍Gurney Drive Hawker Centre 新关仔角夜市
最著名且规模最大露天小吃集合地,居住在gurney区或乔治城都推荐
⏰6-11pm每天
推荐:Lok Lok、Laksa、海鲜、烧烤

📍Macallum Street Night Market 五条路夜市【周一】
⏰ 5-10:30pm,周一
槟城本地人最爱的夜市之一,距离乔治城约2公里
推荐:Curry Mee咖喱面、Asam Laksa、椰浆饭

📍Paya Terubong Night Market 垄尾夜市【周二】
规模小以本地人为主的社区夜市,靠近极乐寺/升旗山离发林夜市很近,没必要特别跑一趟
⏰6:30-23pm,周二
推荐:Hokkien Mee Stall槟城风味福建面、Satay 炭烤沙爹串、Apom Balik香脆马来煎饼

📍Farlim Night Market 发林夜市【周三】
当地居民的热门聚集地,美食摊位多+价格实惠
⏰7-11pm,周三
🌟推荐:Lok Lok、煎蚝煎、炭烤海鲜肉串

📍Batu Feringghi Night Market 巴都丁宜夜市【周四】
以粤菜为主规模较小,包括纪念品、服装摊位
⏰7-22pm
🌟推荐:炭烤海鲜、Murtabak、炒粿条

📍Pasar Malam Van Praagh 大路后星期五夜市
距乔治城有一段距离,不建议专门来
⏰5-22:30pm,周五
🌟推荐:炒粿条、椰浆饭、海鲜

📍Sungai Dua Night Market 双溪夜市【周六】
⏰7-22pm周六
中型夜市,吃完可去USM大学逛,机场附近住宿可来
🌟推荐:椰浆饭、甜点、果汁


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