20/06/2017
When I get married, I will position my wife in a way that my siblings will have no option than to accord high respect to her.
I hear about the disrespect a lot of married women get from their husband's family, I can't just help but feel her husband didn't play his role well.
His family doesn't respect her probably because he doesn't respect her enough..
See, when it comes to marriage; family copies you.
How you treat your wife becomes their guide.
Family will not disrespect your woman if you highly regard her and make it obvious that she means a lot to you.
When you make your woman precious to you, people will make her precious to themselves, because if they respect you, they'll cherish what you cherish..
There is no sentiments here.
Assuming(because it cannot happen)my wife and younger sister are fighting. I'll likely slap my sister..😏
Or if not, I'll be highly mad towards her.
She is my wife. That's my rep. If she did anything wrong, you should talk to me.
Disrespecting her is disrespecting me.
Just that many men don't understand that whoever disrespects their wife, disrespects them.
Even if it's family.
And that's because you've not shown her uttermost regard previously.
Cherish your woman.
Treat her like a queen.
Let your family know through your actions that you don't joke with her.
When they attempt being disrespectful towards her, don't take it lightly.
You must get to that point where your wife is the most important person to you.
Yes, she really is.
“For this cause a man will leave his father and mother and CLEAVE...”
You must leave your family..
No, not forget them but who you cleave to is now your priority and whatever threatens her is your enemy.
Stop trying to sit on the fence.
It's better to make enemies with family just because your wife must be fine and regarded.
If that's the only option.
You don't marry a woman into your family to be at the mercy of your siblings. Crown her queen, so they respect her.
