Relationship Affairs

16/08/2024

To the unmarried men.

1)Let your kids know your financial contributions in the home. The years of silent contributions are over.

2)Carry out DNA test on all your kids, never be manipulated by trust.

3)Never say never, your wife is not an angel. A woman is a woman 4)Do not allow your wife push you into making decisions you are not ready for, especially financial decisions.

5)Do not give your wife the opportunity to disrespect the members of your family, extended or not, else she will abuse it.

6)If your wife flirts with other men, it may be enough reason to end things, before she ends up in their beds.

7)Care for yourself as much as you care for your family.

8)If your wife is ungrateful and discontended, end the marriage so she doesn't kill you.

9)Never forgive your wife if she cheats. that disrespects you in your trying times, should locate her father's house when you get back on your feet.

11)Vet thoroughly, it won't give you an angel for a wife, but will cut down your chances of marrying a devil.

12)A party freak, a feminist, an online attention freak, is not one you should wife.

And finally,

13)Never ignore the physical signs in women, so you know the ones to avoid.

Good morning.

06/07/2024

10/05/2024

Do you know why the past of women is talked about more than the past of men?

-When searching for husbands, women put into consideration the things the men have to offer. These things are, a stable home, finance and provision, security and protection, care and affection.

Howeverwhen men are searching for wives, what men put into consideration are, Chastity, being homely, low or zero body count, being reserved, and being submissive.

-The first three things listed when men consider women are always rooted in their past lives

While all the things listed when women search for men, are always rooted in the men's future.

-If you compare the both, you will see that "money" is not necessarily a criteria for men, when they choose wives, but it is a criteria for women.

While, a woman wants to know, if the finance to run the home will keep coming in twenty years time. The man doesn't care to know if she has been a billionaire before he met her, or if she will keep making millions, twenty years into their marriage.

What a man is concerned about is how the woman has lived her life, to know where she should stand in his own life, and if she is worthy of his own commitment.

Now, women will ask "why is it only the past of women that matters?".

The answer is that, you as women made it so. You made it that way. Because the last I checked, there is no law anywhere that states that, as a woman, you cannot check the past of any man you wish to spend the rest of your life with.

The point is that, 90 out of 100, as long as your future is guaranteed with that man, you often do not care how he has lived in the past.

But for men, 90 out of 100, without clear understanding of your past, they do not see that their future is guaranteed with you. Good morning

08/04/2024

Dealing with insecurities in marriage and relationships can be challenging, but it is essential for personal growth and a healthy partnership. Here are some strategies to help address and overcome insecurities:

1. Acknowledge and accept your insecurities: Recognize and admit your insecurities to yourself and your partner. Avoid suppressing or denying them, as this can worsen the situation.

2. Communicate openly with your partner: Talk to your spouse about your insecurities and how they make you feel. Be honest and trust that your partner will be understanding and supportive. Communication strengthens bonds and allows for mutual understanding.

3. Seek professional help: If your insecurities are deeply rooted or impacting your mental well-being, consider seeking therapy. A trained professional can help you explore the underlying causes of your insecurities and develop strategies to overcome them.

4. Practice self-care and self-acceptance: Invest time in activities that promote self-love and self-esteem. Engage in regular exercise, eat healthily, pursue hobbies, and surround yourself with positive influences. Focus on accepting and embracing yourself as you are.

5. Challenge negative thoughts and beliefs: Insecurities are often tied to negative thoughts and beliefs about ourselves. Challenge these self-destructive thoughts by acknowledging evidence that contradicts them. Focus on positive aspects and achievements in your life.

6. Avoid comparison: Comparing your relationship or yourself to others can fuel insecurities. Recognize that every partnership is unique, and no one has a perfect relationship. Concentrate on building and nurturing your own connection instead of seeking validation from others.

7. Build trust: Insecurities can stem from a lack of trust. Work on building trust in your relationship by being reliable, honest, and supportive. Trust is crucial for fostering security and enhancing the overall relationship.

8. Set boundaries: Establish healthy boundaries with your partner to protect your emotional well-being. Communicate your needs, feelings, and limits. This helps create a sense of security and ensures your emotional health is prioritized.

9. Focus on the present: Insecurities are often rooted in past experiences. Remind yourself that your current partnership is separate and unique from past relationships, and avoid projecting past insecurities onto your current relationship.

10. Keep the lines of communication open: Continuously communicate and discuss your fears, concerns, and insecurities with your partner as they arise. Regularly check in with each other to ensure you are both on the same page and feeling supported.

Remember, overcoming insecurities takes time and effort. It's crucial to be patient with yourself and your partner throughout the journey.

21/03/2024

Building a better relationship and marriage requires effort and dedication from both partners. Communication is key in any successful relationship. Make sure to express your thoughts and feelings openly and honestly to your partner, and also take the time to actively listen to their concerns. It's important to show appreciation and support for each other, whether through small gestures or words of affirmation.

Trust is another vital component of a strong relationship. Be reliable and keep your promises to build trust with your partner. Make sure to prioritize spending quality time together and engaging in activities that you both enjoy. This will help you strengthen your bond and create lasting memories.

Respect is fundamental in any healthy relationship. Treat your partner with kindness and consideration, and make sure to acknowledge their boundaries and opinions. Remember to support each other in times of need and celebrate each other's successes.

It's also important to work together to solve any conflicts that arise. Instead of assigning blame, focus on finding solutions as a team. Be willing to compromise and show empathy towards your partner's perspective. Seeking help from a therapist or counselor can also be beneficial in resolving deeper issues and improving communication.

By nurturing your relationship with open communication, trust, respect, quality time, and teamwork, you can build a stronger and more fulfilling marriage. Remember that relationships require ongoing effort and care, but the rewards of a deep and loving connection with your partner are truly priceless.

20/03/2024

Fear of losing a girl means youve already lost her. Living with fear is unhealthy. Always retain walk away power. Keep your skills sharp, so you can get a new girl on command.

19/03/2024

THE TYPE OF WOMAN YOU SHOULD MARRY

1. A woman who does not keep male friends.
2. A woman who asks for permission for everything.
3. A woman who holds you in highest regard among all men that walk the earth.
4. A woman who worships her father.
5. A woman who was intentionally raised to be a good wife.
6. A woman who is willing to give up her career for the children & to help you.
7. A woman who submits to you & well represents your last name.
8. A woman who is well separated from the herd.
9. A woman who neither smokes nor drinks alcohol.
10. A woman who views s.ex as sacred & not a cheap means to a selfish end.

THIS IS THE WOMAN THAT THE SHEPHERD WOULD MARRY.

18/03/2024

How to build a better relationship

Building a better relationship requires a combination of empathy, communication, and effort from both partners. Firstly, it is important to communicate openly and honestly with your partner about your needs, feelings, and concerns. This can help to avoid misunderstandings and build trust between the two of you.

Listening attentively to your partner and showing them empathy is also crucial in fostering a strong connection. It is important to try to understand their perspective and validate their feelings, even if you may not agree with them. This can help your partner feel heard and valued in the relationship.

Furthermore, making an effort to spend quality time together and engage in activities that you both enjoy can strengthen your bond. Building positive experiences and memories together can create a sense of intimacy and connection between you and your partner.

Additionally, it is important to show appreciation and gratitude towards your partner for the things they do and the qualities they bring to the relationship. Acknowledging and celebrating each other's strengths can foster a positive and supportive dynamic in the relationship.

Lastly, it is important to work together as a team to overcome challenges and resolve conflicts that may arise. Compromise, understanding, and a willingness to work through issues together are key in building a healthy and lasting relationship. By prioritizing communication, empathy, effort, and teamwork, you can build a better and stronger relationship with your partner.

15/03/2024

How he treats you, is how he feels about you. don’t try to decode it or make excuses. it's simple, if he acts like he doesn't care, he doesn't care, because if he truly liked you, he wouldn't put you in a position where you have to wonder why he acts the way he does. And it goes both ways.

15/03/2024

A married man or woman who has a bestie of the opposite gender,
is liable to remarry one month after divorce!

11/03/2024

If a man loses his peace of mind at home, he directs his attention outside where he can probably find one. If a woman sees you as a non caring, she goes where she will probably get the attention and care..

I am talking to you husband and wife...

05/01/2024

Women need to understand that submission isn't slavery.
A submissive wife has her husband in her palms.
A submissive wife controls the husband's wallet.
A submissive wife makes decisions for the husband.
A woman who's submissive owns her husband's heart.