17/02/2026
MY LESSONS
1. Yoga does not happen on the mat
Patanjali, referred to as the father of Yoga, said Yoga is for the mind. Most of us in Europe start practising yoga to build strength and flexibility. Many feel the physical benefits, and many also the mental ones. Yet very few dive deep into the philosophical aspects of yoga. I realised here that I am only at the start of this journey.
2. Surrender to the practice.
I used to find Hatha and Ashtanga classes taught in the traditional Indian style, holding poses (Asanas) for five breaths or longer, with strict class discipline and without the usual flowing Vinyasa transitions, quite hard and at times rather boring. For four weeks, I showed up on the mat, often twice a day, surrendering to the Asanas and practising detachment from my emotions, simply showing up. It worked. I still prefer other yoga styles, but I now also enjoy Hatha and Ashtanga and will continue practising them.
3. Patience is not waiting for something to happen, but trusting the system that it will.
This is something I have always struggled with, and it became very obvious on the mat this time around. I practised a lot of Ashtanga for the first time during my first Yoga Teacher Training in 2019, and there are a few Asanas I thought were impossible back then that are now doable for me. Instead of avoiding them, I now revisit these Asanas regularly, noticing the progress and trusting that one day I will fully get there.
4. No matter how hard you try, there will be people you do not vibe with, and that’s ok.
Everyone operates on their own emotional and mental frequency, shaped by how they see the world. When two people share a similar frequency, connection feels natural and energising; when they don’t, nothing is wrong. They are just tuned differently.
Human connection isn’t about effort alone. It is about alignment. You are not meant to resonate with everyone because if you did, your signal would not be distinct. It would be noise.
The key is not to change your frequency but to broadcast honestly. Do that long enough, and the right people will recognise your signal, and the vibration will feel incredible.