07/10/2017
Everyone knows he’s no good for me. Everyone knows that all he did was hurt me. If you ask me why I keep going back when I know I’m setting myself up for being heartbroken over and over again, I'll always tell you that I love him.
I've been hurt by people multiple times but one thing is for sure, when we love someone, no matter what they do, or how they treat us, at the end of a day, we love them so we will go back as long as they'll let us.
Does our love for a person justify our stupidity and naiveness? I don’t know. Maybe it’s up to us to decide.
Love forgives, give chances. Sometimes to undeserving people too. And in reality, giving chances is not for someone who hurt us, but for ourselves.. In a hope of winning them over. In a hope that maybe they will give back all the love we offer. If we think it's worth it, and in the long run, that's what makes us happy and content, then we deserve this chance. But remember not to look for chances to fix it or win them, just be you, the awesome you and everything will fall in place.
Love is bigger than the feeling of possessing someone. So stop defining love, and for once let it sweep you off your feet.
Family forgives and moves on. Friends forgive. Lovers forgive. Without chances, we would've always thought of a love story as unfinished. If we give chances, we don't regret anything about trying to work things out.
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So, how many times should you give someone another chance?
As many as they need, as many as you can give without being abused or disrespected or neglected, as few as possible to get the point across. NONE, if need be. MANY, if it's appropriate.