11/04/2023
I am honored to have my family gather around me tomorrow to celebrate my firstborn Olivia‘s birthday and mine. Our miracle daughter, Delia has come home from her work in Charlotte as a counselor for a private counseling clinic.
We have had a great morning breakfast of Cider Waffles, and a reading of Jesus Calling and Bible verses. We have been discussing and praying for the victims of the Israel Hamas War. We pray for victims on both sides, and that innocent lives would be protected.
We will be 22 at table tomorrow to share a cover dish dinner. Why do we not say potluck? Because we are Southerners. Kitchens were in separate buildings from the main house. China was made to be serving dishes with lids, made and shipped by the British from Canton, China, thus we call them covered dish dinners. My father told me that when he was in college at the College of Charleston that he had a few privileged opportunities to dine elegantly at the Villa Margarita, where every thing was served family style in covered dishes.
My table is set with gold chargers and my mother’s gold rimmed Royal Worcester Evesham pattern china. I started it for her on my first visit to England as a youth in 1978. In the early 80s, princess Diana chose it as her wedding china. It has eternal colors and is a tribute to my mother who birthed me November 6, 1956. Daddy voted for Strom Thurmond on that day on the Dixiecrat ticket.
In England, they don’t call their dishes china. That’s an American thing. England boycotted the sale of China’s porcelain, because they didn’t want the competition. The only Chinese exportware that you see in England is in English Country Houses where owners had wealth connected with shipping with China. Special orders were made for the family often with the family crest included. I recently learned that China made replicas, knock offs, of English silver tea services and other pieces, made with English silver, presumably the very silver England used to pay for TEA shipped from China. The silver made in China historically is exact replicas, even down to the British hallmarks of the silver smith!
We are blessed to live in the city of Charleston. The holy city is deep within our bones as Biden said upon his arrival in Israel of his love for the Jewish people. Charleston is on the same latitude, and the line with California and with Israel. California is an exaggerated Israel of America, and that it is long and narrow along, the Pacific Ocean, just as Israel is long and narrow along the Mediterranean. Everything grows in the soil of California as well as in Israel. Like California and the state of Israel, the holy city of Charleston is extremely blessed. Those of us who are born and raised here are the envy of the world. We share our blessings with open hands of hospitality. Sometimes it backfires on us.
I had called my daughter Victoria, who was coming home from playing pickle ball as the lights went out on the MOOtrie Playground Pickleball courts, to tell her that I was unlocking the front door for her, knowing she’d be home any minute. I told her I’d seen someone uninvited swimming in the next-door neighbors’ brand new pool. I told her to be careful coming home and to lock the front door as she came in and to turn out the lights, that I was going to take a bath. Then I heard her outside the bathroom door as I was in the bathtub before bed. I said, “Come on in, Darling.”
The door opened, and the head only poked in and looked at me. My first thought was a jack-o’-lantern, a trick, as the face was big and round with a halo of black curls going around the 30 year old African-American woman’s head! As I realize this jack-o’-lantern was alive, an intruder, I gave the involuntary very loud response of a scream. She quietly closed the door. I got out and put a towel around me and ran to the staircase and shouted at the top of my lungs, “In the name of Jesus Christ, the Son of God, get out of this house, if you do not live here.“ I didn’t want Victoria to think I was talking to her if she had come home or if this was a friend of hers. It was no friend of Victoria’s. I put on a bathrobe, and then went downstairs cautiously. She was gone.
Eventually the police cars came, and each policeman wanted me to give them an individual report. We were on the front porch as I was pointing to the neighbors pool where I had seen a dark figure climb out of the pool. What had attracted me to look was the sound of someone yelling. I had gone to the front porch wondering if someone was protesting my flag for the state of Israel. My hearing turned me towards the pool where I saw one dark figure climbing out. It was the cold, cold water that was making her Yelp.
Victoria interrupted and pointed down to the side of the house below the porch. She asked, “Mom, who’s car is this?“ It was the same feeling I had when Cathy Barnwell at Valentines party at 57 1/2 Legare St for Olivia‘s kindergarten class pointed down off the back steps and asked, “Whose pet is this?” I was afraid to look but down, because I knew we had no pet. It was a rat! As I looked down at this car, it slightly moved as if it was thinking of bolting out the driveway. Victoria bravely put a cast-iron chair at the end of the driveway as she said, “What if they have a gun?” She did it anyway. The police then looked startled to realize the intruder was still on the property. They went down to question the person very cautiously, with beautiful manners and respect. They then asked me, “Can you identify this person?” I said, “Yes, definitely.” That face is indelibly imprinted in my mind forever. They asked, “What was she wearing?” I said that all I saw was her head. They each wanted to know what she was wearing. Finally, I said, why?
They said, “She’s naked!“
That’s why it was only a dark figure I saw climbing out of the pool. She went skinny-dipping! But she left her clothes behind. The Valiant Victoria, ever resourceful, went to the neighbors and got her clothes. She gave them to the police, who gave them to this very heavy set naked Intruder, who then put the clothes on in the car. She said she had the car on with the heat to warm up; she just wanted to go to sleep. She let out a stream of bad words as they took her to the front of the house for me to identify her from the window. The bad words were when they told her she was going to sleep in jail this night. She told them these were construction sites in this neighborhood, that she didn’t think anybody lived here. She was out for a free ride like Mr. Toad in Wind in the Willows.
The officers asked me if I wanted to press charges, that they knew this had been an awful terrifying experience for me, and that I must be very upset. They said I would have to go to court! I looked at them stupefied.
“Yes! Of course, I will press charges. If law-abiding decent people don’t press charges, then LAWLESSNESS will increase!”
“Yes they said, but you will have to go to court and see her and testify against her.”
I replied, “That’s what it usually means when you press charges. You have to see it through. That’s what decent citizens do.”
They looked at each other and smiled and then looked back at me like I was one of them. The black policeman among them shared his faith with me as I shared mine with him telling him what I actually yelled from the staircase.
I’m reminded of Dr. Duncan Pringle, whose pocketbook was stolen from her in the Gaillard parking lot decades ago. She told the young black man that she probably had delivered him if he was born in Charleston as she delivered most of the blacks in the Charleston community. She wanted to know his name not for a police report, but to see if she recognized the name as one she had delivered. She had goodwill even as he was robbing her. She did not take this violation into her worldview. It did not make her paranoid, bitter, resentful, or hopeless. When Pringle Franklin’s mother, Mrs. Anne Pipkin, was knocked down at Colonial Lake and robbed, frail thing that she is, she arose victorious and triumphed over her thief who was caught and apprehended.
We are to guard our hearts with all diligence, for out of our hearts flow the issues of life. We will not let lawlessness increase, nor when it happens, will we let it invade our hearts with its darkness. Our city motto is, “We GUARD our customs, buildings, and laws.” From King Charles the First we have our South Carolina State motto, which is on many license plates, “While I breathe, I HOPE.“
We are victors in this fight. We will fight the good fight of faith, in Jesus name! For “greater is HE who is in us, than he who is in the world.” As we lift Jesus higher, as we left Him up for the world to see, HE will draw all men unto HIMSELF. We hide in His shadow of His wings. This stance is the mission of the Holy City. We let HIS LIGHT shine here, and The Light pierces the darkness, and the darkness cannot hide.