05/27/2026
About a third of the couples I work with are planning a trip where one person has been to the destination before and the other hasn't.
The mistake is letting the experienced traveler design the itinerary. They want to show their partner everything they remember loving. The result is a schedule that's too dense, too nostalgic, and built for a version of the destination that may not exist anymore.
The version that works treats both halves of the couple as first-time visitors. The experienced one becomes the cultural bridge. The new one sets the pace. The itinerary stops being a tour of memories and starts being a place they're discovering together with one of them slightly ahead.