04/17/2024
Guess who is back??? PIGGY and Paula!!!!!
For those who followed and enjoyed the Adventures of Piggy, she has things to share from the last couple of months and will be posting going forward.
Unfortunately we had to put the Adventures on hold, due to the fact that I was “apprenticing” at a local eyelash/eyebrow studio (IYKYK) for an Esthetician license (thought it would be a fun side gig and I love people, so why not?). The owner, who was “teaching”me, was paranoid that I was “stealing her customers” by visiting their places of business (local financial advisor, local children’s clothing store, local Opthamologist office), so, out of respect, I put Piggy on hold. I later found out she thought that I, or one of my friends, was trying to buy her building too. Again, paranoia with no basis.
During the time I apprenticed, I also did things like babysit the owners dog, which she did not compensate me for, worked to get her salon TV going utilizing MY computer, painted, ripped out carpet, and assisted with installing flooring at her new location (not the job of an apprentice, but something I did, TRYING to be nice), etc. All of these acts which were clearly expected but unappreciated. It was a situation which was toxic and untenable and ended as unprofessionally as I expected, based upon her previous behavior. I was warned not to get involved with this individual/program, but I didn’t listen - my mistake. One person said “She needs to leave our precious little town”. I couldn’t agree more.
Anyway, I DID finish my hours and will be taking the state boards, but it will take time, because I need to research and study the book and all of the things I was not taught, which are part of the requirements.
I learned some VERY valuable lessons over that time period that I’d like to share for those that have to deal with people who are clearly unstable:
“I’m not intimidating, you’re intimidated. There’s a difference. I’m not mean, nor aggressive, I am honest and assertive and that makes you uncomfortable. And it’s not ME that makes you uncomfortable, my PRESENCE challenges your comfort. I will not be less for you to feel better about yourself”.
So, with all of that, Piggy is back and we have lots of FUN things to share.