04/11/2026
There’s something that happens when a trip gets close enough to feel real.
Not the planning phase — that’s its own kind of energy. I mean the moment when it shifts from “something I’m looking forward to” to “something that’s actually happening.” For me, that’s usually about two to three weeks out.
Little Palm Island is 17 days away. And I’ve noticed this week that I’m a little more patient, a little easier to be around 😀.
It turns out there’s research behind this. A 2010 study in Applied Research in Quality of Life found that the anticipation phase — the weeks before a trip — often produces a greater happiness boost than the trip itself. The effect starts well before you ever pack a bag.
I think about this when people tell me they’ll plan “when things slow down.” The trip on the calendar isn’t a reward for getting through the hard stretch. It might actually be part of what gets you through it.
Where are you headed next?