06/29/2025
My Dad often has a saying that people usually die how they've lived. I've lived mostly a "responsible" life. Or at least that's what the elders have always said about me. In fact, I specifically recall a rebellious few years in my early 20's when I wanted to be everything but responsible!!!! Wanted to be free to be reckless like everybody else. ๐
That phase didn't last long. I'm kinda not built that way. By 25 I had a business to run so yeah -- the choice was made. Handle your life-business in a responsible fashion and keep it moving.
35 years on, I'm still trying to walk that walk. So yesterday I gathered with Attorney Sharon Burney, my dear Friend Marcus Milburn and Mrs. Maria to ink my Last Will and Testament.
I gotta say, it felt good good!! And my sleep last night was quite sound!! Ms. Grace used to always say, "If all I have is 1 wooden nickel left, IT'S MINE and I'm gonna let you know where I want it to go!" That's where I am these days.
These current "legal systems" (especially with this current administration) are not always designed to be our friends. Not gonna be long-winded today, just sending a gentle reminder to get your affairs in order. ESPECIALLY if you have a spouse and young children and real assets. Now, if you don't have nothing...... that's another conversation. ๐ But seriously, do it anyway. Just make your wishes known and put it on paper.
It's liberating.......I wouldn't lie to you. ๐ช๐พ