
06/02/2022
The power of uncomfortable action
I bought my first investment property 15 years ago. At that time I was a single mom with 2 kids, expatriated to Beijing, China for work. Property management seemed to be the solution for me. The only thing it gave me was more headache than I ever had since then with self management.
The problem was not the afar or my busy life. The problem was my limiting belief that I could not do it.
I was wrong
Not that I did have a lot to learn. I had.
Not that I was crazy busy with kids and a corporate leadership role in a foreign country. I was!
Not that I had no idea how to manage a tenant. It was a first.
I was wrong
In believing I could not do it
In thinking that somebody will do it better than me
In paying to get it done instead of owning it
I was wrong
Because you only grow from your own mistake
Because you learn by doing
Because you build confidence by taking action
If I don’t pay attention I can do the same mistake again and again. In so many different domain of my life!
Actually each time my mind starts to think:
Never done that.
Never been there.
I better ask someone who knows to do it for me.
When it comes, I remember that my heart knows better than my mind:
If I feel it, I’ll be alright. I know better than my mind tells me!
And you? How to you find the way to trust you when it comes to uncomfortable action?