05/15/2025
A Late but Real Birthday Reflection: Turning 36
I turned 36 on May 10th, and honestly, I wasn’t ready to write about it then. I needed a minute. I’m still processing how I feel about this new age because this past year has been a whirlwind of emotions.
It’s been a year of true strength and resilience—doing my best to be the mom my kids deserve, running my business at a high level, and being a good wife, daughter, friend, and sibling. Most of the time, I feel like I’m just running around like a chicken with its head cut off, trying to keep it all together. To the world, it might look like I’ve got it all figured out, but inside, I’m constantly questioning if this is how it’s supposed to feel.
Am I where I thought I’d be at 36? Some days, I’m not so sure. But when I really look at it, I don’t give myself enough credit for what I’ve done. I don’t take the time to say, “Wow, Tara—you did it. You made it happen. You believed, you worked hard, and you manifested so much of this life.”
Part of stepping into 36 is learning to thank myself more often, putting myself first when I can—even though it doesn’t always work out that way because, well… kids. Life. And that constant mom guilt that never really goes away.
But I know this: This is my year. The year to get back to my genuine self, to let go of what others might think, and to stop comparing my journey to anyone else’s. It’s time to keep my head down, do the work, stay humble, and focus on being present. I’m reminding myself to worry less and remember that I’m doing my best. I’ve come so far.
To all the working moms out there who feel like they might break any day—you’re not alone. None of us really have it all worked out. We’re just out here doing our best, even when it feels like it’s never enough. You are stronger than you think, and you’re doing an amazing job. Keep pushing, keep showing up, and don’t forget to appreciate how far you’ve come.
Here’s to the next chapter—one filled with more gratitude, grace, and focus on what truly matters. Cheers to being real, resilient, and embracing every part of the journey.
