07/21/2017
DON'T FORGET TO TAKE TIME TO SMELL THE ROSES
Ever come back from a vacation feeling like you need another vacation? If your life is an endless series of should-do’s and bucket lists, it’s not a difficult leap to bring that mentality along when you travel on holiday, and then punish ourselves into having all the ‘fun’ we can possibly pack into jet-lagged, food-fueled, sight-seeing days and nights. Returning home, we consider ourselves victorious if we are armed with a zillion snapshots and the ability to Facebook the equivalent of “What I Did Over My Summer Vacation”. Whew.
Frankly, I’ve given up that kind of travel. I can only keep that pace up for a day or two before everything begins to look the same. Also, I’ve learned that the best journeys come from experiences that happen while I’m busy doing nothing…which is why we at Bon Voyage provide plenty of free time: for introspection, for napping, for yoga, for hanging out. And this missive will cover the finer points of hanging out – using Paris as an example.
Have an hour? Sit down. As of May 2008, there were about 7,000 cafés in Paris (sadly down from the 45,000 in the 1880’s). If you add bistros, restaurants and bakeries into the mix, you can barely walk 10 feet without finding a chair you can plop into. For the price of the cheapest thing on the menu, you have all the time in the world (and most of the time, free WI-FI) to hang out and let the world come to you. My recommendation? Get your nose out of the smartphone and watch the show: everything from the ridiculous to the sublime, the soon-to-be famous to the has-beens, the street musicians and the unlikely pair of lovers will be food for your eyes. If the place isn’t crowded, the waiters might make for a good story. You can say much about Parisians…but you can’t say they are boring.
Have three to four hours? Here are some options:
Go for a walk. Anywhere. Turn a corner. Walk into shops and say ‘Bonjour’ to the shopkeeper. Wander down streets and get lost. You can always call an Uber to get you back to where you started. You will find most small shops warm and welcoming places for you to wander. A cultural note here: try not to pick up and touch stuff unless you intend to buy it…this particularly applies to foodstuffs like fruit. I’ve seen grocers go red in the face because someone attempted to self-serve. It’s just not done.
Try a particular destination. NOT A MUSEUM. Try something that the locals would do, like heading out for a bit of destination shopping. For me, it’s the Hermés store. Yes, the place is outrageously expensive. And it is a feast for the senses. Three floors of over-the-top clothes, jewelry, accessories and furniture that will make you swoon. Ahem…it makes me swoon. I will admit to buying a scarf (or three) over the years at prices that would make the most resolute shopper cringe, but…what the heck! I feel like a million bucks every single time I wear my ‘foulard’ and remember the experience. Every. Single. Time. Totally worth it.
Go to Père Lachaise. Located in the 20th arrondissement, notable for being the first garden cemetery, as well as the first municipal cemetery in Paris. Depending on the time of year, you might encounter crowds, but don’t let that (or the groupies at Jim Morrison’s grave) deter you. Invest in a little guide book/map before you go (there are plenty for sale in the shops right outside) and then take yourself for a leisurely walk in the company of Isaac Newton, Edith Piaf, Oscar Wilde, Marcel Proust, Chopin and countless others. The point is not to see it all; rather, to have a philosophical wander among your favorites in history. It’s a beautiful place that many miss because they can’t find the time. Bonus: You’ll deserve a hearty meal after your hike through the graves.
I could go on, but you get the gist: in order for you to really enjoy your voyage, you need to slow down enough to pay attention to your surroundings and the people (dead and alive) that envelop your being. Breathe deeply. Now, THAT’S culture. The rest is just stuff to look at.
At Bon Voyage our goal is to give women the small group experience they expect and deserve…and have the journey of a lifetime in the process! Join us for 9 days that will last forever in your heart and mind. Only 3 openings left for our October 22-30, 2017 “Come to Paris for the First Time. Again” Voyage.
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