03/08/2026
On International Women’s Day, I ask… what is a “woman”? There is a lot of debate around this right now.
Some think that a “woman” should be:
-obedient
-supportive
-feminine
-quiet
Others think she should be:
-a certain size
-pretty
-fashionable
-polished
Others think she should:
-become a mother
-be the peacemaker
-do it all
-ask for permission
Constant boxes the want to fit us into and sweeping beliefs that barely scratch the surface of the vibrant, dynamic women that shape the world.
The second a woman becomes:
-powerful
-challenging
-discerning
-an advocate
Many get uncomfortable, and try to place their expectations of smallness upon us. Try to chastise us and remind us of what they think we should be. Or maybe they re-label us and call us:
-manipulative
-disruptive
-evil
-crazy
-failures
Here’s the thing: women are terrifyingly powerful. And the thing about being pushed down every time we pop back up? Well those are reps, making our muscles stronger. Comfort breeds weakness, but women have been uncomfortable their own skin for so long that there’s no danger of weakness.
What is a woman unfiltered?
-A woman is at the center of all creation.
-A woman is an ultimate strategist.
-A woman is a justice seeker. A warrior.
-A woman is an intuitive. A truth teller.
-A woman is wisdom, grace, and dignity.
She is humor and joy and sorrow and pain.
She is complex and because of the range of things she sees feels, she is holds dynamic potential.
So if you want a woman that fits in a small box, or if you’re a woman who thinks she needs to stay in a small box, you’re missing out on the incredible power that lies within.
There’s no wrong way to be a “woman”. Theres no way to define a woman.
There are ways try to cage her, to tame her, to break her. But remember, every time you do, you just make her stronger.
Happy International Woman’s Day to my sisters around the world. Today I celebrate you, your wisdom, your power, your presence, your dynamic brilliance, your contributions, and the depth of love for those around you.