10/21/2026
WEEK 6
NOTES FROM A TRAVELING GOLFER β #6
"Excuse Me, the Gentleman Is Singing"
Our first golf trip to Ireland was epic. We played courses that, all these years later, are still some of my favorites β Lahinch, Ballybunion, Tralee, Dooks and others. Even our arrival day was memorable: we got off the plane and headed straight to Shannon Golf Club, right next to the airport, where the Concorde was practicing takeoffs and landings while we played. What an amazingly beautiful airplane β and man, was it LOUD.
But one of my favorite memories from that entire trip happened after we played Tralee. That evening, we went to a classic Irish pub called The Oyster for dinner. It was exactly what you hope to find in Ireland β a nice band playing, families enjoying the evening, locals having a pint and a meal, just a wonderful, authentic Irish pub. And we were loving it. We were also, shall we say, well served by that point in the evening.
After dinner, Jeff, Floyd, my dad Mel and I were sitting right next to a piano. The band took a break, and an older gentleman walked over, sat down at the piano and began to play and sing. He was wonderful, and we were absolutely loving it β in fact, we were enjoying ourselves so much that we began talking about just how much we were enjoying ourselves. Apparently, a little louder than ideal. (Remember the part about being well served?)
Suddenly, I felt a tap on the back of my head. I turned around.
"Excuse me. The gentleman is singing."
Oh. Wow. So sorry. We quieted down immediately.
The band eventually came back, played another set and took another break, and back came our piano player. Before long, THUMP β another tap on the back of my head, this one with a little more authority behind it. "Excuse me. The gentleman is singing." Message received. Well, mostly.
Before the night was over, it had become a running joke. We were politely β but very clearly β reprimanded several times. Eventually, we moved back a bit, behaved ourselves and ended up laughing with some of the same people who had been telling us to keep it down.
To this day, it remains one of my favorite nights and memories from all of our golf travels, and there's something about that night that has stuck with me beyond the laughs. Those are the experiences we work hard to create on our trips today. Of course, the golf matters β you go to Ireland dreaming about Lahinch, Ballybunion and Tralee. But I also want people to experience Ireland. Give me the local pub filled with families and regulars. Give me the older gentleman who simply decides to sit down at the piano and sing. Give me the people sitting behind you who aren't afraid to teach a few loud Americans a little lesson about respect and being polite. Those are the moments you can't manufacture β you just have to put yourself in the right places and let them happen.
We went to Ireland to play some of the greatest golf courses in the world. All these years later, I can still picture those courses. But I can also still hear, "Excuse me. The gentleman is singing." And I wouldn't trade that night for anything.
What's a travel memory you still laugh about years later β something you never could have planned?
About Brian & GoGolfTours:
Brian Volmer, his wife, Dana, and their son, Aidan, run GoGolfTours and spend much of the year traveling, golfing and sharing the places they love with others. Notes From a Traveling Golfer is a collection of stories, people, places and experiences gathered along the way.
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