05/21/2026
A note to the empty nester thinking about cruising alone.
I talk with a lot of people in this season of life who've quietly been wondering if a cruise on their own is even something they're "allowed" to want.
Maybe you've been recently widowed.
Maybe you're divorced.
Maybe your partner just isn't a traveler, and you've spent years waiting for them to be.
Maybe your kids are grown, and the idea of going somewhere without coordinating with anyone else feels both freeing and unfamiliar.
Whatever brought you here, I want you to know something.
Solo cruising is not a consolation prize.
It's one of the most thoughtful ways to travel at this stage of life. You set your own pace. You linger over breakfast as long as you want. You choose your excursions based on what genuinely interests you, not what works for the group. You eat dinner at a shared table if you want company, or at a quiet two-top if you don't.
The ship handles the logistics. You handle the experience.
A few things I tell solo travelers I work with:
You're not as alone as you think. River cruise ships, in particular, have a built-in rhythm for meeting people without forcing it. Shared dining, small group excursions, and evening lounges. Connection is available, never required.
Cabin choice matters. Some lines offer dedicated solo staterooms without the single supplement. Others waive it during certain sailings. This is where having an advisor saves you real money and frustration.
The first one is the hardest. Almost every solo client I've worked with has told me the same thing afterward. They wish they'd done it sooner.
If you've been turning this idea over quietly, you're not the only one. And you don't have to figure it out alone.
Where will the water take you next?