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Sex and Happiness This page is the portal to Your personal S*x & Happiness. It is a place to rediscover your true self!

This is one of the most common relationship patterns I see. 🔄One person shuts down and pulls away, trying to avoid the f...
05/29/2026

This is one of the most common relationship patterns I see. 🔄

One person shuts down and pulls away, trying to avoid the fight. The other escalates, hoping to finally face the issue head-on.

Yet underneath it all, both nervous systems are in turmoil, and both feel misunderstood.

Until you learn new tools, the same argument keeps showing up in different clothes.

Healthy conflict begins when your boundaries become clear.

I teach the first steps inside my free Master Your Boundaries workbook. https://bit.ly/master-your-boundaries

05/28/2026

Women are asking to be heard and to feel that someone is with them in the moment.

A conscious man learns the difference between fixing a problem and holding presence.

The couples who learn this skill are the ones who have a real chance.

Send this to someone who needs to hear it. ❤️

We learned about love by watching the relationships around us, people often doing the best they could with tools they we...
05/26/2026

We learned about love by watching the relationships around us, people often doing the best they could with tools they were never given themselves.

The good news is that healthy partnerships are not reserved for the lucky few.

Loving another person in the way they need to be loved can be learned at any stage of life. Through presence, honesty, awareness, skill, and practice.

These are just some of the tools we introduce through our Extraordinary Lovers Experience. ❤️

Our next experience is coming up from November 5-8. Save your spot at bit.ly/ELE-November

If you want to book a call for more info instead, then visit bit.ly/ELE-moreinfo

We cling, over give, and call it love, disappearing inside relationships that ask us to betray ourselves.Attachment can ...
05/23/2026

We cling, over give, and call it love, disappearing inside relationships that ask us to betray ourselves.

Attachment can feel safer than sovereignty, especially for those of us who were praised for self-sacrifice.

There comes a day when we become unavailable for losing ourselves. ✨

If this feels true for you, I invite you to join us for the next Extraordinary Lovers Experience: https://lauriehandlers.com/events

It’s not even your business to try and micromanage that.You, on the other hand, are your business.So when you come smack...
05/21/2026

It’s not even your business to try and micromanage that.

You, on the other hand, are your business.

So when you come smack up against a wall in your relationship, look for clues to the mystery by searching inside yourself.

The deeper invitation is not to study them more, but to turn inward.

📖 There’s more about this in my first book, The Ta***ic Laws of Intimacy.

I have much more details on the next page, click to see more: https://bit.ly/lauriehandlers-books

Profound transformation comes when you’re ready for it, and not a moment before.Until then, the deeper work is learning ...
05/19/2026

Profound transformation comes when you’re ready for it, and not a moment before.

Until then, the deeper work is learning not to make war with where you are now as self judgement is just a delay.

If this speaks to you, you may belong inside my Inner Circle Membership community. ✨

https://bit.ly/lauriehandlers-innercircle

05/15/2026

Until we learn how to release what is stored in our bodies, we keep living the same pattern with different faces.

You can read every book on love and Ta**ra, but some truths can’t be learned through the mind.

My gratitude to Laurie Ellington for creating space for a conversation willing to go beneath the surface on the Poly Ta**ra Kink Podcast. ✨

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Women were never taught that our pl3asur3 also matters.For generations, women learned to disconnect from des!re and then...
05/13/2026

Women were never taught that our pl3asur3 also matters.

For generations, women learned to disconnect from des!re and then feel shame for not knowing what to ask for.

This is conditioning.

And conditioning can be undone. ⛓️‍💥

Society has taught us to override our bodies. We dismiss exhaustion and have no time to listen when our body says no. 🚫G...
05/11/2026

Society has taught us to override our bodies. We dismiss exhaustion and have no time to listen when our body says no. 🚫

Getting in tune with ourselves means honoring our sensations, like trusting the tightness in our chest or the heaviness in our gut.

Ta**ra invites us back to ourselves instead of treating the body like something beneath us that needs to be controlled.

When we learn to listen, we become more alive and more available for real int!macy.

My next Extraordinary Lovers Experience is coming up next month, keep following for more details to come.

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Girls learned early that beauty was welcomed (more than truth) and silence was rewarded much more than opinion.Sit up st...
05/09/2026

Girls learned early that beauty was welcomed (more than truth) and silence was rewarded much more than opinion.

Sit up straight, look pretty, and remember to smile.

For generations, women were shaped to earn approval by abandoning parts of ourselves and swallowing our words so others could stay comfortable. ❤️‍🩹

That conditioning follows us into love, work, and into every room we enter until we decide it stops here.

When you are ready for this pattern to end with you, come to the next Extraordinary Lovers Experience. www.lauriehandlers.com/events

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