26/02/2024
OK, I've got to get on my soap box for a moment.
Parents, don't think that "teaching" your child doesn't matter!
I recently received this comment on an ad I'm running for my at-home preschool program, Movin' Monkeys Preschool, saying we should just let kids free play and that's it.
Comments like these make me crazy. Because it's an all or nothing way of looking at things.
There is a huge movement right now promoting free, unstructured play for children. They say the best learning happens with free, unstructured play.
And they are absolutely correct.
I am 100% convinced that unstructured play is when the deepest learning happens.
BUT...
That does NOT mean that unstructured play is all your child should do.
Just because something is best does not mean we throw out everything else.
Are we really wanting to promote the idea that free play is all that matters and your role as a parent and "teacher" to your child doesn't matter? Does that feel right to you?
Should we just embrace the "Lord of the Flies" mentality and just leave our kids alone to do whatever? All the time?
Because guess what?
Some structured learning and exposure to new things is the most STIMULATING thing you can give your child.
It gives them new ideas. It helps them think and imagine new possibilities. It is the catalyst that spurs your child into more unstructured play.
You wouldn't believe the deep play that comes from a week of learning about jungle animals in Africa. Suddenly the child is going on their own imaginative safaris, making up their own jungle stories with blocks, making animal art, and more.
Are unstructured play advocates really suggesting that is a bad thing? That it would be better to not to have taught the child about the jungle?
No. For heaven's sake. Teach your child about the jungle. Teach your child about space. Teach your child about plants, dinosaurs, seasons, insects, weather, all the things.
Studies show that the children who do best in school are those that were exposed to more things.
Don’t let the world undervalue what you can do as a teacher for your child.
Teach your child things!