05/26/2026
This was Ray's brain after his traumatic brain injury.
Most of you know the injuries were severe, and we were told to prepare for the worst.
But that overachiever kept fighting.
When people say they had “no idea” how serious things were, this is what they did not see.
The fear.
The decisions.
The trauma.
The long road that comes after survival.
Living in pencil.
He is still here. And I will never stop being grateful for that. I won't lie! Some days, he can be more than I can handle. At least he prepared me over the last 20 years, so I had some experience with our special Ray of Sunshine!