28/08/2019
Traditional markets were more than centers of commerce. Since the women(including beautiful young girls) were both the buyers and sellers, young men often meandered through the markets to check out the prospects, as this ca dao notes:
Wise men seek wives in crowded markets
Wise women seek husbands in large military units
One famous tale recounts how poet-statesman Nguyen Trai was strolling through the market when he noticed a young woman selling rush mats. The vendor’s beauty so captivated Nguyen Trai that he is said to have addressed her with this quatrain in seven-word meter:
Where are you and your mats from?
Stacked,single-are any still for sale?
What age have you reached this spring?
Are you married yet? How many children?
Much to his amazement, the beautiful vendor responded with her own extemporaneous quatrain:
I’m here from Tay Ho selling mats
You needn’t ask whether I’ve sold out
My spring years have just reached sixteen
I’ve no husband, you ask about children
Nguyen Trai took the pretty vendor, Nguyen Thi Lo, as his wife. Although this may be apocryphal, the details of the couple’s death are historical. Nguyen Thi Lo’s beauty, charm, and literary talent also enchanted King Le Thai Tong, who often visited the couple. The King died suddenly the day after such a visit. Nguyen Thi Lo was accused of regicide. She and Nguyen Trai were executed in 1442. In 1462, King Le Thanh Tong rehabilitated the couple’s reputations. Nguyen Trai’s home at Con Son in Cong Hoa Commune, Chi Linh District, Hai Duong Province about seventy kilometers east of Ha Noi is a national heritage site.