15/05/2026
There's a difference between a trip that works for everyone and a trip that entertains your kids. One is designed around your family. The other is designed to avoid complaints.
The trip designed to avoid complaints requires constant input - snacks, screens, queues, diversions. Everyone is managing something. The trip designed around your family requires a different kind of preparation: understanding what each person actually cares about, and finding the place where those interests overlap in the real world. That trip doesn't need to be managed. It runs itself.
A family that travels around their genuine curiosities doesn't fight over the itinerary. They fight over who gets to go back.
Save this. It's a useful frame for the next time you're trying to get everyone to agree.