29/10/2026
Last week, I attended my first event at Sage House with my Mum since her dementia diagnosis back in May.
It was an afternoon tea with a performance by Echoes of ABBA, who were absolutely brilliant.
The food was good, the performance was incredible, and the staff and volunteers who helped make the event happen were wonderful.
But as enjoyable as the afternoon was, I found it quite emotional too.
Being surrounded by people living with dementia at different stages of their illness made me realise, all too painfully, what may lie ahead for Mum. And that is heartbreaking.
As I watched her, hunched over in her chair, picking at her food and seemingly quite distant, I unexpectedly found myself with a lump in my throat, fighting back the tears.
And then something incredible happened.
The band began to play, and suddenly Mum was singing, clapping, waving her arms in the air and even getting up to dance with a wonderful lady who seemed to take her under her wing.
I’ll admit, the dancing made me a little nervous, as Mum is prone to falls! So I sat behind her, ready to catch her if she stumbled. Thankfully, she didn’t.
It was a beautiful reminder that, even when dementia seems to be taking so much away, moments of joy can still break through.
If you haven’t heard of Sage House, it’s a Dementia Hub that provides support not just for people living with dementia, but for their families too.
It’s a charitable organisation that relies on donations, and the support it provides is such a blessing to those who need it.
In one of the photos, you’ll see I’m proudly wearing my ‘Friends of Sage House’ badge, which was handed to me at Corporate Ladies Club last week, a networking group organised by the wonderful ladies at Sage House which also helps raise funds.
You can have a badge too if you’d like to become a regular supporter. For the price of a cup of coffee a month (or more, if you can), you can help Sage House continue its invaluable work.
Just follow the link below to find out more and sign up.
https://bit.ly/DonationMonthlyfriendsofSageHouse
Sadly, dementia can touch any of us, or someone we love, in so many different ways and at any stage of life.
Sage House makes a real difference to the people and families affected by it. If you can spare even a little, it really could make a huge difference.
Thank you for taking the time to read this.