11/08/2026
Eric Deuker and I are loving our time in South Africa!
Dinner at Phinda Lodge was a BOMA — A traditional outdoor safari feast held inside a protective wooden or reed enclosure around a central campfire. BOMA stands for British Officers Mess Area, where officers and leaders of the British military would meet and strategize for the next day — a tradition that evolved alongside British colonial outposts and military messes in Southern and East Africa.
The menu: brown lentil soup, grilled chicken flatties, ostrich, oxtail potjie, venison wors, pap & sheba, Durban vegetable curry, corn with garlic butter… and chocolate cremaux and a cheese board to finish. It was all delicious.
This is the part of safari nobody warns you about — the food is this good, every night, in the middle of the bush. Good food, good company, stories around the fire.
📍 andBeyond Phinda Private Game Reserve, South Africa
If you want a seat at this table, email me at [email protected] — Denise Likes to Travel & Associates.