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The word "Kefi" embodies the essence of high spirits, enthusiasm, and a passion for life—everything we bring to our travel experiences.

I have a rule I try to teach my daughter.Do not inform your boss that you will be taking the afternoon off as a question...
06/09/2026

I have a rule I try to teach my daughter.

Do not inform your boss that you will be taking the afternoon off as a question. Say, "For your information, I will be taking the afternoon off." Then let the sentence stand.

It sounds small, but it is not.

I think a lot of women were raised to phrase their own decisions as questions.

Would it be okay if. Do you think I could? I am sorry to ask, but.
Somewhere along the way, asking and deciding got tangled together, and a lot of us never noticed the difference.

Here is what I actually believe about permission:

You are never going to get it, because there is no one handing it out. The only version of it that exists is the one you give yourself.

Take the trip. Take the afternoon. Stop waiting for a yes that was never coming from anyone but you.

Where in your life have you been asking permission for something that was already yours to decide?

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My friend and I have known each other for 43 years.Last week she told me she really wants to come on a Kefi trip. Then, ...
04/09/2026

My friend and I have known each other for 43 years.

Last week she told me she really wants to come on a Kefi trip. Then, almost in the same breath, she said she could not make it work this year.

Her husband said, "So go."

Just like that. No hesitation, no negotiation.

She laughed and said she just had to pick which trip.

I keep thinking about that exchange. I do not think she was actually asking his permission. I think she was thinking out loud, and some old habit in her answered the question before he did.

I see that pause in a lot of women. It is quiet. It does not always look like asking. But it is there, waiting for someone else to say what she already knows.

Have you ever caught yourself waiting for a "so go" you did not actually need?

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For  years, twice a year, I flew to Italy for trade shows.On paper it was work. In practice it was survival.By the time ...
02/09/2026

For years, twice a year, I flew to Italy for trade shows.

On paper it was work. In practice it was survival.

By the time the trip came around, I was always at the same point. If I have to stay in these four walls one more minute, I am going to lose it. I needed a change of scenery, so badly it embarrassed me a little.

So I would go, and it was still work, still meetings, still a schedule. But it was a different pressure.

I was with my friend. I could laugh without watching the clock for someone else's needs. Nobody needed picking up from anywhere.

I did not call it an escape- at the time. I called it a business trip.

Looking back, I think that pressure valve is what kept me upright through those years. I did not know I was building the case for Kefi. I just knew I needed the plane to leave the ground.

What has silently kept you going, long before you could recognize it?

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My mother was an incredible cook.Every dinner party, every holiday, she made everything herself. Nothing store-bought, n...
31/08/2026

My mother was an incredible cook.

Every dinner party, every holiday, she made everything herself. Nothing store-bought, no shortcuts.

For years I thought I inherited that. I would spend entire weekends before company came, trying new recipes, putting more pressure on myself than the meal ever needed.

My sister finally said something that stopped me: "It is not about the food. It is about seeing your friends."

I did not believe her at first. Then I thought about my mother, and where all that need cooking came from.

My sister has a theory. She thinks our mother got so much validation from people loving her food, because she rarely got it anywhere else in her life.

I do not know if that is entirely true. I know it changed how I feed people.

I buy prepared food now sometimes. I still get to see my friends. Nothing has been lost.

What is something you inherited from a parent that you finally decided to let go of?

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Every Kefi itinerary has one day with nothing planned.It took me a while to be comfortable putting that on paper. It loo...
30/08/2026

Every Kefi itinerary has one day with nothing planned.

It took me a while to be comfortable putting that on paper.

It looks like a mistake at first. Like something I forgot to fill in. Now it is the part of the trip I protect the hardest.

Women spend the rest of the itinerary saying yes to wine tastings and walks and dinners with guides who have known these hills their whole lives. All of it is worth saying yes to.

But by day four or five, something in a person needs a day that asks nothing of her.

Some women sleep. Some sit somewhere with a view and do not move for three hours. Some finally read the book they packed and never opened.

Luxury, to me, is not another excursion. It is the absence of one, on a trip where every other day has been full.

What would you do with an empty day, no explanation required?

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28/08/2026

There is a cable car that climbs to San Virgilio, and partway up, the sound changes.

Below, it is engines and voices and the ordinary noise of a mountain town going about its day.

Then somewhere in the climb,after changing to a single chair lift, you start hearing cowbells instead. Then pine. Then almost nothing at all.

On one trip, a woman in our group was worried about successfully getting off the chairlift, when she hopped off , the rest of the group clapped for her.

It mattered, and everyone understood exactly why.

That is the kind of thing that happens when the group is small, and the group is women. Nobody performs bravery. Nobody hides fear either. You just do the hard thing, and the people next to you notice.

At the summit there is an old church that has been there longer than anyone can say. You stand at the door of it, slightly out of breath, slightly more yourself than you were at the bottom.

I build adventure into these trips carefully. Enough to matter. Never enough to strand you.

What is something you did on a trip that scared you a little, and you were glad you did it anyway?

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Here is the part of building something that never makes it into the highlight reel.Most weeks look identical. Write some...
26/08/2026

Here is the part of building something that never makes it into the highlight reel.

Most weeks look identical. Write something true. Post it. Hear from people who felt it. Do it again the following week.

Nothing dramatic happens on most days.

I used to measure whether the work was working by how loud the week was. Now I do not.

I have watched a stranger book a trip off a post I wrote four months earlier, one I had almost forgotten I had written.

The quiet weeks were not the pause before the work. They were the work.

I am not sure anyone tells you that part before you start. I am telling you now.

What have you kept showing up for, even when nothing seemed to be happening?

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24/08/2026

I am 62.

Some days that number sits exactly where it should. Most days I feel closer to 17, and

I mean that as a genuine report, not a joke I tell at parties.

I started Kefi later than most people start anything. I think about that more than I would like to admit.

There is a version of this where I built the business at 40 and had two decades of trips behind me by now.

What I have instead is every year I spent before this one.

Trade shows in Italy. Half days stolen between meetings.

A slow, unplanned education in what actually restores a person, built long before I had any use for it.

I did not waste those years getting here. I needed them to know what here should feel like.

I am not apologizing for the timeline anymore.

What is the thing you have been waiting for the right age to start?

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23/08/2026

There is a knitting mill in San Leonardo that most people driving through South Tyrol would never notice.

Inside, wool goes in raw and comes out as a finished garment. The people doing it are mostly women, daughters of those who worked there before them.

Nobody rushes you through. Nobody is performing a tour for tourists.

It is simply a place where a thing is still made the way it has always been made, and you happen to be standing there watching it happen.

I put this on the itinerary because it is real, and because there is something about watching a skill passed from one generation to another that remains with you longer than most souvenirs do.

This is the kind of stop you cannot find on a review site. You find it because someone spent years in that region and knows exactly which door to knock on.

That is the work behind every Kefi itinerary. Finding the door, then knowing when to stand back and let you look.

What is a place you visited that nobody told you to see, and it turned out to be the best part of the trip?

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Before Kefi existed, I traveled the way most people do. Mixed groups. Partners, friends, whoever came along.Then I notic...
21/08/2026

Before Kefi existed, I traveled the way most people do.

Mixed groups. Partners, friends, whoever came along.

Then I noticed something I didn’t quite grasp at first.

The women in the group were there, but not entirely. Someone was always tracking something. Whether everyone had eaten. Whether the mood in the car was good. Whether the person next to her was having a good time.

It is a kind of labor nobody assigns, and nobody thanks you for, because it mostly goes unnoticed, including by the woman doing it.

I do not think that habit is a flaw. I think women build it over decades of being the one who notices things first.

But I started wondering what would happen if that job simply did not exist on a trip. If nobody in the room needed managing, because everybody in the room was equally the point of being there.

Kefi started as an answer to that question, before I had the language to ask it directly.

What would you do differently on a trip if nobody needed anything from you?

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